My best friend is planning to commit suicide in 4 months and I don't know what to do.
I have this very close friend of at least 7-ish years on discord. It's (this friend uses it/its pronouns) a transfem young adult in Brazil. This started some weeks ago when my friend went completely silent for 3-5 days. On the second day, I dm'ed it and it started telling me that it was planning to kill itself in November and gave a bunch of reasons why. Some of these reasons included the impression that nobody would care if it disappeared (I told it otherwise but it didn't say anything in response.), the possibility of it running out of money to spend on hrt, the feeling that it's working out and hormones aren't making any difference in it's body, the feeling that it hasn't improved as a person at all throughout their previous relationships, the fact that they feel very desperate for physical affection that it can't seem to get irl, and probably other things I can't remember off the top of my head. I tried telling it to call the brazilian suicide hotline, but it responded by saying that they wouldn't understand because it's transfem and brazil is very hostile towards members of the LGBT community. It started talking to people on discord again recently and I started to think that it was getting better. But then it put the countdown to it's suicide back in it's bio after it was removed for a few days. I badly want to help this friend, but I can only do so much since I live in the united states, a completely different country. Even though it's only supposed to happen in 4 months, I'm still really scared that it's going to go through with it. I'm trying to be there for it as much as I can, but it still doesn't feel like it's enough. I would really like some advice on how I can get through to it and help it at least get into a good enough headspace where it doesn't feel like suicide is necessary. I would dearly appreciate any advice at all, I cannot stress enough how fearful I am about this.