AP3?
Ok, this married woman supposedly had a “just a friend” and he tried to make the relationship physical so she stopped the friendship (hahaha really continued to be there for him as he “fixed” his marriage.) She didn’t tell her husband about the emotional affair or the offer of physical. She didn’t tell his wife. That happed like 4 years ago. They are still friends.
Next, my husband, same married woman. she told him about guy #1, as proof she only wanted to be friends. My husband was a “just a friend” - really he got caught in emotional affair by her husband this time. She promised she would stop. She didn’t. I caught them a few months later. Best me and the husband can tell, they were flirting just short of kissy face at work, never outside of work. My husband told HR about the relationship (she was his boss) and she was removed from his area. That was 2 years ago.
My career took a turn and now I work at the same company as her and my husband. I found an office of a guy who just was promoted 3 months ago. I saw his white board “hi “married man’s name. I miss you. Her signature” So I know the note is new. Is this her new AP? “I miss you” is bad. Coming from someone with 2 emotional affairs, it’s not a sign, it’s an offer.
First, I’m overjoyed as it solidifies she is desperate and lonely and spending energy on someone else. And not my husband. I don’t know the new man’s wife.
What would you do?