How do you cut off a childhood friend
Throughout my whole life ive always had low self esteem. I let everyone walk all over me. This friend in particular has disrespected me way too many times throughout my life. I have a problem with caring too much of others feelings which always makes me through the issue under the bus and keep the relationship going. The thing is, deep down I do care for her a lot and love her and I’m the godmother to her children whom I also really care for. But lately Im realizing I’m at my whits end. We’re on good terms as of right now but I think all the attitude and rudeness over the years is bothering me. She hasn’t changed much. She just has these rude moments and I’m tired of letting it slide. I think I just don’t want to be her friend Anymore. I feel stuck in a toxic friendship. How do I just say out of the blue that I don’t like the way you treated me over years months days with the attitude out of no where and cut her off. I can’t bring myself to do it . At this point o don’t feel sorry about not being in her or her kids life at this point but I’m just kinda ready to move on from the friendship. I’m trying more passive boundaries as of right now just not being as responsive and not coming over as much. I hate to say it but I’m kinda waiting for a last straw moment. Any advice?