How long does it take to move on?
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Context:
My gf(25) of almost 12 years just broke up with me(25). I found out that she was deleting phone calls in history and deleting convo’s with son of the owner of a small company she works at. And I was pushing why did she delete the convo and the phone call if the call is all about work, first she said I would get angry if I saw calling outside of work hours(but I wouldnt if just told me in the first place instead of me seeing it) then days past, I asked her again she said “Im bothered by it, what if I accidentally calls back”. This caught me in a confused state she was so out of character, she’s never like this, back then she would always tell me something like this and would tell me the reason she deleted it in the first place, and the moment she deleted it. A week past after she broke up with me, my friend told me I should let her go, but she was literally half of my life memories.
I’m gonna ask how long does it take to move on past this, I’m so tired, mind’s racing, heart aching, overthinking that I made a big mess, by reacting on it.
(Please don’t call her names, I know she would’nt cheat on me)