u/JadedHeart6882

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years, everything was great and we were happy. *A bit of background* I am in school full time, I also work full time… we have had conversations about how busy I am, but we both know that soon this will all pay off, I try to spend my free time with her when I can and she seemed to be okay for the past year or so. My family has also never accepted her, in fact have outwardly told me that if I continue this relationship they would cut me off (they haven’t done it yet but I wouldn’t put it past them) and she is also very self destructive, her mother has not been a good mom to her, she’s been neglected from her and her dad ran off when she was little…. *backstory over* One night she comes to my house and claims she loves me, but she doesn’t know if we can continue… she never gave me a concrete reason, she said she doesn’t think that she’s thinking logically, my family will never like her, she doesn’t know if she’s with me because she wants to or because of comfort. I had told her I’d give her space so she could sort her head out, I begged her to go to therapy so she could work on herself, I told her I’d be there for her… but it’s been almost a month and I see no light at the end of the tunnel. Am I being too hasty? I’m trying to give her time… but what about me and my feelings? My head has been spinning and I can’t sleep, I feel so lonely and tired…. Can someone please point me in a direction I could take?