Marriage profile - pls read carefully - JazakAllah khairun
Asalamulaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh. My sister is looking for a potential spouse so I am helping her with the process. All conversations will be handled by me (her brother) to begin with and in sha Allah if there compatability we can move onto a group chat.
• Age and Gender : 25F
• Age range you would want/require in a prospect: 24+ (if you’re mature, I can consider younger)
• Location, and are you willing to relocate for a prospect? Cambridgeshire Yes within the UK— I would love to make Hijrah too
• Ethnicity, and are you open to mixing? Pakistani/British-born, open to all ethnicities
• Marital status: Single, never married
• Ideal marriage timeline: 5+ months — it really depends on compatibility and whether our morals, goals, and perspectives align
Five important characteristics I look for in a prospect Mercy: For any relationship to thrive, one needs to be merciful — in times of differing views, illness, mistakes, and reconciliation.
Mercy should also extend to parents in old age, being dutiful towards them. Lead by example: if you want your children to be merciful towards you, you must actively show them how it’s done.
Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) is the best example for all mankind. If we choose to follow his beautiful Sunnah, we cannot go wrong, bi’idhnillah.
Haya (modesty) in speech and actions: I was moved by the haya of Uthman ibn Talha when he assisted Umm Salama (RA) on her journey to Madinah from Makkah. I would really recommend listening to the lecture by Omar Suleiman on this.
Taqwa: If you have taqwa in your Rabb, you recognise your limits and don’t see boundaries as restrictions, but as something that elevates your rank with Him.
Qawwam (responsibility): Understands the responsibility of providing within his means and knows that Ar-Razzaq is in control. He spends willingly and happily on his family, encourages good, and forbids evil in a calm and compassionate manner.
Tawakkul (trust in Allah): When things go wrong, he knows there is a Lord capable of everything and places his trust in Him alone — in both hardship and ease.
I have so much more to say, but I’m not looking for perfection. As much as I look for these traits in a potential spouse, I also strive to embody them myself as a servant of Allah (SWT).
It’s important to regularly reflect and identify areas for self-improvement. There will always be traits that are not befitting of a Muslim or Muslimah, and for the sake of Allah (SWT), we work on them to strengthen our relationship with Him.
Level of religiosity • I have performed Umrah and by the mercy of my Rabb and hope to continue going regularly to revive my iman, Islam, and ihsan.
• I am currently learning to read the Qur’an with tajweed with a teacher (I attended the masjid as a child too). Alhamdulillah, I’ve become more conscious now and want to sincerely connect with the words of my Rabb. I want the Qur’an to be my companion — from the grave to Jannah.
• I am in my second year of a fundamentals course covering Islamic law, hadith, tafsir, and classical scholarship. I want to continue seeking knowledge, and I hope my spouse will support and encourage me. InshaAllah, after my third year I will move on to Nahw and Sarf. I would hope for my Husband to be a student of knowlege too. There are short courses too a
• I wear the niqab and a long chadar. My covering is something I will never give up. May Allah (SWT) keep me steadfast, even in times of fitnah. I see it as a sunnah but I still take it very seriously.
When looking for a potential this would mean I won't be able to adjust in a house where the brother in laws are living. I would also prefer to live separately for many other reasons.
When I make mention of the above please understand I am not trying to elevate myself, reason I noted then down is because they all things I do regularly so one should be aware that I would want to continue pursuing them
These are some of the reasons why my family sometimes thinks I’m “different,” but they bring me immense peace:
• I do not listen to music and avoid environments where it is present. I have stopped attending weddings where it is played. I very much dislike it and would really struggle if my other half choses to still hold onto it even if it's an occasional habit. • I do not watch movies or TV shows — my reasoning is that if it is impermissible to look at non-mahrams generally, then the same applies on a screen. • I do not swear, and I would prefer someone who avoids it as well • I don't celebrate birthdays at all - including milaads. Sending salawat upon the Prophet Muhammad sallahu alayhi is encouraged highly in the Qu'ran and doing abandant dhikr is a beautiful way to draw near to your rabb. If I don't see it in the sunnah and Qu'ran then I respectfully do not follow. AllahuAlam • I don't have social media - I prefer to keep myself off it because it does promote unrealistic expectations of life and marriage as a whole. • Riba is off the table- the next life is far better than this one so I do not want to be in war with my rabb and lose out on it
• Level of education: A-levels
• Current job status: Working in a call centre. I had the honour of beginning my modest dressing journey in this workplace, and if they allow me to dress as I wish, that is a blessing.
• Do you want kids? Yes, ultimately. I am a heart patient, so there are considerations which need to be discussed in sha Allah, but I am open to adoption (raising a child without claiming them biologically), within Sharia guidelines.
Pls research into it so you are fully aware of the condition before you chose to send over your profile
- Double mechanical valves
- Warfarin - has some lifestyle restrictions
- Pacemaker - abdominal + lead less in the heart
Hobbies / interests • Nature walks and reflecting on the environment — being in awe of the One who created it • DIY projects - Islamic art is something I am interested in at the moment • I would love to start sewing — may Allah (SWT) put barakah in my time.
Something interesting about me I simply want to worship my Rabb and stand before Him on a day when He is pleased with me.
My family and friends are a beautiful blessing from my Rabb, but they are not my ultimate purpose (not that I would ever neglect my responsibilities).
The goal is to please Him, do right by His creation, seek beneficial knowledge, and return to Him.