u/Jaded_Fan_292

What destroys a relationship the most without people realizing it?

Open to debate :)

I’m a woman looking to meet someone for a genuine friendship that could naturally grow into a serious relationship with the intention of marriage. I’d prefer someone religious, respectful, and emotionally mature, ideally between 21 and 25. I’m not sharing my age here, but I’m within that range. If you’re intentional, consistent, and looking for something real, feel free to reach out.

Please only for serious men living in Spain or Europe.

I’m a woman between 21–25, living in Spain and studying at university.
I’m tall, brunette, black hair, glasses, and I have a calm and reserved personality. I’m introverted at first, but once I feel comfortable I become warm, fun and talkative.

I enjoy reading, studying, doing sports, learning new things and improving myself. I like simple, peaceful moments and meaningful conversations more than superficial things.

What I’m looking for:
A mature, respectful and emotionally stable man between 21–25 who lives in Spain (or close enough in Europe) so we can actually meet in real life. Someone interesting, with goals, values, and a good heart. I want to start as friends and let things grow naturally into a real relationship.

If you’re honest, kind, and looking for something meaningful, you can talk to me.

I’ve been thinking about this a lot after finishing the season, and honestly… Adil’s logic doesn’t make sense to me.

Esme hid the truth too, and she even asked Gezeb to stay silent.
İlve hid the truth to protect her innocent child.
And Gezeb kept the secret because Esme begged him to.

So why does Adil forgive Esme so quickly, but treats Gezeb and İlve like they committed an unforgivable crime?

If he’s angry about the lie, then all three of them lied.
If he’s angry about betrayal, then Esme betrayed him first.
If he’s angry about the consequences, then İlve was literally trying to protect her son.

And another thing:
Why is Fadime acting like she’s the victim?
When Adil was in prison, the ones who actually stood by her were Gezeb and İlve. They were the ones supporting her, visiting him, and helping her through everything.

To me, Adil’s reactions feel inconsistent and emotionally biased.
I’m curious what others think. Is he being unfair, or am I missing something?