r/MoroccoDating

I talked to that reddit guy month ago and we were talking sweet like flirty but in sweet way and he talk like that the most so . Like he treating me like a baby like idk nichnames checking on me other sweet things like that and when I tried to take things to another place like another app he said he doesn't have any social media

And his sweetness make me wonder what he want or anything like this . Like how cant you treat me with this sweetness

Idk guys

Should I ghost him ?

I'm 30 from Tetouan. I'm looking for a woman who is outgoing and isn't too uptight about everything. I found that people with a sense of humour are the most chill and undramatic people.

I don't care about your looks. If you're halfway good-looking, please ignore this post.

I'm 178cm, 80 kg, very chill, calm, not dramatic.

I like to meditate and write. They're my coping mechanism from anxiety.

If you're in Northern Morocco, text me.

thanks

when you dont allow anyone to manipulate u or to f with ur peaceful life (first mistake = last mistake), they'll start calling u narcissist, psycho, old a** man (im 27yo btw), villain, i hear these every single time i kick someone (friend/gf) out of mylife, i dont have to tolerate ur dirty mind, i rather prefer to be alone then to be surrounded by someone who wants to play shitty dirty games with me, i don't have time for all that.

I protect my own peace at all coasts, i don't want unnecessary stress, and drama in my life, just healthy relations is tht too much ?!

I feel like there’s this thing that people don’t really talk about.

I’m a 30M, and I wouldn’t say I have no success with women. It’s not that nobody is interested in me. There are a fair share of women who show interest, who make an effort, who are kind, who make it easy for me.

And I hate admitting this, but most of the time, they’re not the women I feel truly drawn to.

I’ve tried to be more mature about it.. I’ve tried dating women I wasn’t that physically attracted to because they were nice, because they had good qualities, because I told myself attraction might grow with time. I tried to focus on their personality, their kindness, their warmth, and the little things that should have been enough.

But deep down, it always felt like I was trying to convince myself..

I would sit there with someone genuinely good in front of me, and instead of feeling excited, I would feel guilty. Guilty because she deserved someone who looked at her with real desire. Guilty because I was trying so hard to feel something that should probably not require that much effort. Guilty because no matter how much I tried to be rational, my mind would still drift toward the kind of woman I actually feel alive around.

And that’s what makes me feel so bad about myself. Because part of me keeps asking, am I just shallow? Is there something wrong with me for feeling this way? I’ve tried so hard to search inside myself, to challenge it, to become the kind of man who can simply look past physical attraction. But I can’t seem to escape it. The women who move something in me, the women who make me feel alive, are the women I find beautiful. And most of the time, they’re also the women the world already agrees are beautiful.

Because there is something almost impossible to describe about being with a woman you truly find beautiful. Not necessarily some Instagram model or celebrity type. I don’t even mean that. I mean feminine some., beautiful eyes, clear skin, beautiful hair, someone who takes care of herself, someone whose beauty feels real and human.

The type of woman I look forward to seeing her. I feel lighter before meeting her. I feel this kind of joy in my chest that I don’t really know how to explain. Even small things feel more meaningful. Her smile, the way she looks at me, the way she fixes her hair, the way she walks into a room. It makes life feel a little more vivid.

And I know personality matters. Of course it does. A beautiful woman with a bad personality would not be enough. But I’ve reached a point where I can’t lie to myself anymore..

This realization makes me feel awful.

Because the worst part is that whenever I meet a woman who is actually my type in real life, it doesn’t just make me excited. It also makes me sad.

It reminds me that being with someone like her probably won’t feel as easy or natural as it does with women I’m less attracted to. Women who are my type have never really approached me, they don’t seem to like my dating app profile, and I’ve rarely felt that kind of interest coming from them.

So when I meet someone I’m genuinely drawn to, part of me feels alive, but another part of me immediately thinks: She probably wouldn’t choose me anyway..

And that is such a strange place to be emotionally.

Because I want love. I really do. I want something serious, something real, something where I can give myself fully to someone. But at the same time, I can’t lie to myself and pretend desire is negotiable. I can’t sit across from someone and try to logically talk my heart into wanting her.

I don’t want to settle, but I also don’t want to become bitter. I don’t want to use a kind woman as an experiment to see if attraction will appear. She deserves better than that. She deserves someone who looks at her and feels lucky from the beginning..

I will most likely stay forever alone, but it's much better that way.

Thanks for reading me !

For both guys and girls: how long does it usually take for you to finally drop the act and show your real, unfiltered self?

Salut, je suis un homme j’ai 32 ans je cherche une femme athée ou agnostique et surtout ne veut pas d’enfants pour le marriage .

Hello I am F (25) , and as the title says I am looking for a reading budy/partner/co-reader. I do enjoy reading a lot, and recently I have been going through a little bit of a slump, hence why I am searching for someone to read with, and motivate each other.

I do enjoy fiction, literature, fantasy, history , philosophy, comparative religion(Though I must point out, I am not interested in reading religious scripture, or text, as I am an atheist), sociology and political geography/economy.

I am very much flexible with my reading, and I tend to dabble into different categories and topics . Nevertheless, recently I been going on into a bit of fantasy rabbit hole, and I am hoping for someone to join me in this journey.

We can have our own small private little book club where we can pick books, read them and discuss them together, if you are interested feel free to dm me.

Hola hola ana jdida fhad community and i dont really know how reddit works tbh but i need advice from an outsiders perspective

Saraha tgal i never dated just for fun even tho im 18 ive always grown to get attached or have strong feelings for the other person, my last relationship was a really messy one and it ended in a really messy way m3a sala lbac, he was manipulative and i dont even think he really loved me, he just enjoyed wtvr we did and it was so toxic because hed start asking me change things about my physical appearance, he would tell me that im not lovable and then he ended things with me 2 weeks after lbac over texts and told me that its never gonna work out between us
Whatever after that i decided i would stop dating en general, maybe id talk to boys here and there but nothing serious because he made me feel so bad lwa7ed daraja makatkhylch, he would text me pour faire des bails and then ghost me completely o ana kil7mara knt kanmchi 3ndo hoping were working on our relationship, bref comprehensible 3lach jai decide no dating

Octobre new school, new people around me, new everything, mohim i meet a girl super nice welat khti literally, i talked to some guys but jai pas du tt kiffe dik hdra, they would act jealous et encore pire b7al ila youre supposed to give them something ma3lina, o wahed nhar kan wa7ed levent fschool o kano les membres du club kidoro 3la les classes et tt ca, bref ana dak nhar cheft wa7ed dri, d7ouki, he seemed nice tbh, kohim i was attracted to him, apres kant sahbti bghat more info on the event mchat swlato howa o sahbo, im not someone who talks a lot so i was quiet o 7chemt bezaf i didnt even look their way, mohim apres dart liya frassi gelt hada kber mni o ana premiere annee i dont wanna be that kind of girl o he prob sees me as a child skippit o zmit fomi, ma3lina moraha kan levent o by that time howa o sahbti wlaw friends kidwiw et tt kna w9fna kolna o b9ina kandwiw (b9aw kidwiw ana rah kanmreg ndwi m3a chi 7ed makan3rfoch), days later sahbti galt liya he likes you glt liha i dont mind talking yo him wlkn wessli lih rah im not into dating at all (ana rah tremti katssfe9), mohimmm dwit bezaf daba aresume likom.

Dwina i liked him more and more chre7t liha 3lach i didnt wanna date anymore, he understood o gal liya safi ana m3ak talnhar tbghi, he would pay for things i wanted ola hed gift me jewelry even tho i insist on not taking his money (7it trebit 3la nkhless dakchi dyali i mankhli ola n3wel 3la ta7ed), 2 months later we started dating because he was thoughtful and he really proved to me thats he was waiting for me only, he was also loyal, charming, wouldn’t hide the fact that he liked me from other people and acted as if he was in a committed relationship and i feel like we had so many really deep talks and honestly te7t fih ti7a dlklab, later on i guess we really fell in love o turns out khalti kant kat3ref mamah lah irhemha, to me this was a sign.
Daba we’ve been together for 8 months and we dont have a lot of arguments, its really rare but with summer and with me having strict parents i cant see him all the time, whenever i can go out he would come even if its just to see me for 10 mins, so we mostly text or call (makandwzoch nhar kolooo on the phone just a few texts and talking on the phone when we can is enough to both of us)

The thing is before he got with me he would go out a lot, party and girls all the time, getting drunk not going back home…, so when we got yogether i didnt wanna take away that freedom from him because to me dating is not about controlling that person and changing them, wlkn i talked to him glt lih ana idc if you go out with your friends or party ghir 7tarmni o ra3i liya, walakin m3a had sayf o had sehd its been weird 7it i wake up early he doesnt, i have thing to do fnhar ola kankhrej lb7er ola piscine howa kikoun na3ess ola mteki, fl3chiya mli kandkhol howa kikoun kidir chi 7aja ya kharej ya la3eb idk, so we spend less time talking wakha hes so loving o ki7awel i3tini we9ti ma 2amkan walakin i hate when he goes out at night to party, kan7ess anaho atra chi 7aja wakha i believe he wouldnt cheat on me walakin another part is basically screaming at me to wake up and not trust him and i think its mostly because of my ex relationship and my trust issues, and ive started acting cold towards him, kant9le9 3lih mli kirje3 7it he doenst text me while hes out mohim ana kanzid fih mn lkher wlkn wakha haka rah kant9ress gha dak lfeeling kankebro

Maartftch wch ana bdit kanfrbel o wch ana fiya lmochkil ola its normal to feel things like this o maarftch if i should talk to him about it ola la nskot 7it ghanban lih mssetya o berhoucha bagha t7kem fih

What do you guys think ?

Sm7o liya la dwit bezaf 🥰🙏😛

I was with a guy for 10 months now and we’re still talking ngl but mli erftooo I lost my confidence u wliiit so insecure bcs he used to cheat on me and talked to other girls behind my back umn dima knt kandwzha specially at first hit kna just a situationship and I didn’t have the right to talk uhad lwqita kamla im trying to prove him smthg ms maearfash shnahia like I didn’t like it that he went to other girls, lately finma kayhdr meay shi hed and he shows that he realllly likes meee or fash shi hed kaywqf Elia to have my number or instagram I just be like not interested to talk to them at alllll and still thinking and wanting validation from the other guy. And just days ago I told him while talking why you’re not giving me compliments anymore and he didn’t answer at all

I hate being alone but I hate being around people more hhhhhh

What destroys a relationship the most without people realizing it?

Open to debate :)

A random girl I didn't even know messaged me on Instagram after seeing one of my pictures. She asked how tall I was because she thought I looked short.

I told her I was 175 cm, then asked how tall she was.

She said 154 cm.

That exchange wasn't the interesting part. What was interesting is how much importance people have started giving to height. A few centimeters seem to matter more than discipline, health, ambition, or everything else someone has actually worked for.

Everyone is free to have their own preferences. I just find it strange how genetics have become a bigger talking point than character or accomplishments.

Personally, I don't think about my height. I have far more important things to focus on.

26M looking for a girl for sexting .

Mhm lblan o mafih many times 7tit post bach nl9a nas nhdar m3ahom, drari wla blat, momkin nkhorjo wla nhadro fi mwada3 you never expect or experience ( idk ) wlkn post kytjaholh or get deleted by mods, wlkn mlli bent kt7t ghir 2lines khfaf 7it got bored, everyone jump on here, I'm not seeking for relationships or smth, just wanna find new interesting people tho.

Cho ra2y daylkon f black pill o looksmaxxing?

Is it weird to fall for someone after just 15 or 20 days? We've only met about five times, but we both already feel really attached to each other. Is it normal to already want to kiss them? I'm honestly a bit confused. Is it normal to get butterflies and feel excited every time you talk to the other person? HELP GUYS

PS: Im a girl, and the question is for my female friend, she wants help

As a disclaimer I'm posting this from a throwaway account for obvious reasons .

I'm a 29-year-old software engineer. A few years ago, I managed to go to the US, and alhamdulillah, I managed to do well. I'm currently employed by a big tech company there. While in the US, I didn't care much about dating, but the two times I dated someone, I felt like I was loved and accepted for who I am, including my kinks, which I will admit are extreme. I won't go into details because I'm pretty sure that if I do, most people are going to ignore my plea for help and instead focus on, or shame me for, that. Anyway, I'm slowly but surely closing in on my FIRE target, and I'm thinking of going back to Morocco for good in five years' time, max. I hope to marry a Moroccan woman, but I'm anxious about my kinks. It's a big taboo everywhere, and especially so in cultures like ours.I don't have tons of experience talking to Moroccan girls, but the few times I did talk to them, either online or in person, I always found it hard to communicate about sexual stuff with full transparency. How am I supposed to address the big elephant in the room, my kinks, when the conversation gets shut down over much simpler stuff? I'm currently in Rabat visiting and as much as I'd like to put myself "out there" and despite having a serious intention like marriage,I'm not confident about approaching women here because I still don't know how to approach that conversation culturally speaking.. I also believe the other person has the right to know this side of me early on especially since it can be a deal breaker. Any help would be appreciated!

IMPORTANT EDIT: I am not asking anyone to lower their standards, it doesn't mean you're a bad person if you have high standards, it doesn't mean you're a good person if you have low standards, this is just some info and numbers about what's going on with real life so you be realistic, you can still have unrealistic standards while knowing what reality is, it means you know your odds and you're fine with that, which is good.

I see in the comments/posts in this community some things that indicate that girls here are so detached from reality, you should absolutely have good standards but also you should think about what good standards should mean.

Let's talk some numbers (and some misleading numbers)

Do you know that the average salary in the public sector is 10.000dh/month? Sounds good wlkn it's misleading (I have a PhD in data science and this is basic statistics), the average is misleading because let's assume this situation, we have a service in a idara 3omomya where 4 technicians get 5000dh each, and chef de service gets 20.000 (this is normal btw), bhal lhala the average is 8000, wlkn one person skews the results where most people fhad lhala make only 5000, avg is 8000 wlkn median is 5000

I don't have official numbers for the median salary f public sector is ghaykon by my estimations f 6000 ta9riban.

Hada ghir public sector, anchofo daba kolchi, and these are confirmed numbers, don't ask me for source a simple google search will do.

The avg salary fl mghrib is around 6000dh, wlkn glna avg is misleading, median is what represents what most people make (google the difference between average and median)

Median salary fl mghrib is around 3000/month, which means more than half the working people flmghrin get 3000 or less, let that sink in.

All this to say, 5k is a decent salary, 6k is a decent salary, 10k is the top earners fl mghrib, I also don't have a source to back this up wlkn I can say this with good confidence, ready? 15k/ month make you the top 1% of earners flmghrib, how does that feel?

So mli bghiti tzwji wahd kaydkhl >15k fchhar, you're looking for 1 in a 100.

Please don't take this as hating, and yes these numbers masawyin walo for the lifestyle you see on Instagram, wlkn dkchi is not real, it's social media, it's toxic, and you're fat according to social media, while in reality, you're good looking.

You also have the right to have any kind of standards you want, wlkn just know that what you're looking for might be 1 in thousands of men.

Another thing, the average age of owning a house ghaykon ktar mn 40, so if you want a young guy that owns a house, you're being unrealistic.

Here's an exercise for you, find out how much your father makes, now think that he's over 60 (laytwl lih f3mro) and had 40 years to build his income, and is still less than what you want your husband to make.

Please don't get me wrong, I love our women, wlkn ghi I talk to girls (for the intention of hopefully marriage) and I find out that they are expecting some things li very far from reality, I'm 30, have a PhD, make decent money, wlkn what I go to social media, I feel like I haven't achieved anything.

One last thing I wanna say, and hate me for it if you want, a 25y.o guy who is god fearing and makes 5000dh is a good husband material, 3ad badi hyato, and in 10 years time will be making what earns him a decent life.

Rkhfo 3lina albnat

First time posting here, I'm not even part of the community sara7a, but i just had some questions and i just thought if people here could answer, no problem though if no one does, I'm just basically venting here.

I'm still young to think about dating and stuff, but I'd like to ask curiously, do healthy relationships or marriages exactly exist? I don't trust couples on social media who show off their relationship in their content, and i had never fall upon someone who's actually married and having a nice healthy marriage.

I've seen people on good termes in relationships, but I'm talking about MARRIAGE, is there actually a hope there? Sometimes i think about my personality, how easily i get irritated, my mood swings, me talking for hours, even my look, and i think is it actually possible that I'd find a person who'd actually love me? The question sounds pathetic tbh, but i think about it a lot, i don't expect much anymore but i wonder is love still there or not.

Again I'm really not interested in dating in general, i js had the question in my mind feel free to say anything, respectfully