Regretting forcing a "normal" life for so long. Here’s what ilearned…

Regretting forcing a "normal" life for so long. Here’s what ilearned…

I’ve been through so much lately that led to severe internal burnout. i realized time was just flying by while I was desperately trying to live a "normal" life like any girl my age..i was forcing myself to fit in, neglecting what actually matters just to chase things everyone else seems to have things i haven't even experienced yet.
Sitting here alone, it hit me that maybe I took the wrong path. Not everyone is meant to experience romantic love, true brotherhood, or have a huge friend group. Trying so hard to force these things only destroys ur mental health and makes u neglect the most important person: urself. ur values, ur education, and ur career…
I wasted 4 whole years looking for attention, validation, and trying to get people to like me just to build a social circle like a "normal" human being. Looking back, if I had just put that energy into building my character, landing a good job, getting financially stable, and securing my bag, then i could worry about all this extra stuff i was so desperate for just to fill an internal void.
Honestly, I’m completely done with romantic relationships and tired of begging people to love and appreciate me, especially while I'm already depressed and mentally exhausted. I'm choosing to stop going down this road and find a new path.
I really hope anyone in my position who’s younger than me doesn't waste their youth on this stuff...
Maybe love will just come naturally when I finally love myself and get back on my feet <3

u/valid_chaos — 14 hours ago

24F, completely burnt out on love and tired of giving everything to people who just leave me empty.

I’m 24F, and the hardest thing i deal with every single day is this heavy emotional emptiness. dwzt childhood s3iba bzaf w ma3ndich khoti..so as i grew up, i realized I’ve been constantly trying to fill that void through people, just waiting for someone to finally give me the warmth I missed out on. The problem is, I’ve never experienced real, mutual love ga3 li 3rafthom f hyati kymchiw w kykhliwni 7it knkb 3lihom jhdi kaml u kanbqa bnafs l’energy.. I love deeply, get attached way too fast, sacrifice my own needs, and I literally can't say "no" to anyone. what makes it crazier is that none of this matches my appearance I’m attractive, athletic, an artist, and from a distance, I give off a strong, mysterious vibe that draws people in. But as soon as they get close and see how open and devoted I am, knjihum sahla bzaf. Lbnat kynso7oni ndir rasi t9ila w ma nbynch makhawif dyali ulhtimam dyali but I hate playing games, I just want to be authentic and love someone who loves me for who I am. Those I cared about drained me emotionally and walked away without reason, and it hurts seeing girls my age being cherished while I look back and remember how I was the one paying for every date and over compensating. I’m just exhausted from this cycle, and I don't know if being genuine is a weakness now or if I’m just looking in all the wrong places.

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u/valid_chaos — 14 days ago

Art reveal tani

mabghitch nbyn kmarti ( mn ghir fach htit my abs) atchb3uni sbab wana sensitive bzf lhedra lkhayba

u/valid_chaos — 16 days ago
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chkun msali had l3chya nkherju

makanhmlch nkhrej buhdi bagha nemchi jih l’oudaya ula ngels fchi cafe lmhm ay haja li bgha nkherju had l3chya (23F)

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u/valid_chaos — 19 days ago
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Is anyone here playing casual football (on the beach or anywhere open) that I could join?

whenI i was younger back in middle and high school, I absolutely loved playing football and used to play with the guys all the time. Now that I’m older 23F I really miss that feeling and the pure joy of the game.
I'm wondering if there's any hope for me to officially register/sign up with a local team or academy that accepts people who just want to play for fun nothing professional, no pressure about winning, just for the love of the sport.
or i want to find people who love football and regularly meet up to play on the beach, a local pitch, or anywhere open. Is there any hope of finding something like this here? Or if there's already a group of you who gather to play, could I join you guys sometime?

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u/valid_chaos — 1 month ago
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eawnuni nlqa khdma svp

I’m writing this because I’ve been feeling incredibly depressed lately due to unemployment and being isolated at home. I wanted to share my situation here in hopes of getting some guidance, advice, or any potential leads.
To give you some background, I hold a Bachelor’s degree in French Private Law (Droit Privé en Français). Alongside my academic background, I am a digital and traditional artist with experience in character design and concept art.
My biggest obstacle is that I suffer from severe Social Anxiety. It has completely hindered my career progression. I couldn't pursue a Master’s degree because of the oral exams, and I consistently fail interviews whether for public sector exams (concours) or call centers. The moment I face a face-to-face or live oral interview, the anxiety takes over, and I fail to showcase my actual skills and knowledge.
I am tired of this situation and desperately want to be productive and independent. Since I cannot handle traditional, high-stress interview processes, I am looking for remote work (Work From Home) or freelance opportunities where performance is based on output rather than live social screening.
If you own a business, manage a project, or have the authority to hire or refer someone directly for a remote role based on actual output rather than live interview performance, you would be helping me tremendously.

thank u,

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u/valid_chaos — 1 month ago
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Looking for outgoing friends to explore the city! (23F)

I’m a 23y digital artist, martial arts lover and after spending a lot of time focused on my craft, I’ve realized that my social circle has become a bit too quiet. I’m looking to change that and meet some new people!
I’m naturally a bit introverted—though not by choice—so I’m really hoping to connect with some super outgoing, energetic, and 'social butterfly' types who love going out, discovering new spots, and just having a good time. Whether it’s grabbing a drink at a bar, exploring hidden gems in the city, or just hitting up different places during the summer, I’d love to tag along and break out of my shell.
If you’re the type of person who is always out and about and wouldn't mind having a creative, low-key, but enthusiastic friend join your adventures, let’s chat!

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u/valid_chaos — 1 month ago
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Looking for someone to go watch the match with me tomorrow..

Looking for some company for tomorrow’s game. ⚽️ Don't have anyone to watch it with, and I'm too shy to sit in a café alone. Drop a message if you're interested!

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u/valid_chaos — 2 months ago
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Looking for a Training &amp; Running Partner 🏃‍♀️🥊

Hi everyone! I’m looking for a motivated and consistent training partner to team up with for outdoor workouts and beach runs. I’m into martial arts, so I’d love to find someone to do some padwork, drills, and cardio sessions together. Whether you have a combat sports background or you're just highly driven to train and push each other, drop me a DM or leave a comment if you're interested!

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u/valid_chaos — 2 months ago
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s3ib tlqa khdma unta endk social phobia

khoti eafakum endi la licence fdroit privé blfrançais ukanrsem ya ftableau wraq digital… maqdrtch nkhdem hit mknjhch fles entretiens bsbab lkhel3a gdam bnadm nefs lhaja elach mkmltch master.. eafakom kn9leb ela khdma mn dar kima bghat tkun lmhm ay hajaaaa gha mykonch fiha entretien ( endi 24y😭)

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u/valid_chaos — 2 months ago