u/Jaded_Machine1573

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She didn’t get pregnant 9 months after this isn’t a venting thing. She gave birth 9 months after. We broke up in Nov 2024. About 9 months later last year she had the birth of the baby. Here’s the kicker she immediately met this new guys and even got engaged with him around Christmastime 2024. Yeah that’s right! She plastered this new relationship all over social media and they even made a couples facebook account where they both had their names on the Facebook account. I only found out because it showed up on my “people you may know” tab on Facebook. Anyways time passes and I see she’s pregnant. Look like she’s pretty big around the belly around April. I’m guessing 3rd trimester. I don’t know exact dates because I haven’t contacted her since and we haven’t talked at all since. We blocked each other on every other app we had. Should I get a paternity test done or just let it go? At the same time I know that’s the right thing to do but also she technically already has a new life with this guy and I don’t want to get mixed in with all this drama. Initially months ago I wanted to let it go but I’ve been thinking about it lately and sometimes I fear and think the new guy is gonna find out and might end up hurting her and the baby because who knows what goes on a guys head when something like this happens. What would you guys do?

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u/Jaded_Machine1573 — 25 days ago