Getting stood up
Hi! My partner and I have problems meeting people that are in the lifestyle. I'm on two sites and get some likes, we respond have a few messages and then nothing. Sometimes we happen to communicate long enough, schedule a date and then they don't show up and don't even text or call to cancel. For example this past weekend, we drove 45 mins to meet this couple. Texted we were on our way and where to meet. They even asked us to bring condoms. So I knew this was gonna happen. We get to the meet up spot, text them to let them know we were there and crickets. We waited 45 mins and no show, no call. I think we're a pretty attractive couple, but this is damaging my self esteem! We've been in the lifestyle 3 years and have had a few hookups but way more times being stood up. Is this common or is it just us? Any advice on how to avoid this happening?