Lost with this guy
Hey,
So I really need some helpful advice on a situation with a guy.
Long story short but we started talking to each other in October last year. We talked everyday for 1 month. I was on vacation for 2 weeks during that time and he was on vacation 2 weeks after that so we never met, cause we simply stopped talking even if we had great « chemistry ». 3 month later, end of December, he reached out again when I posted a story on Instagram.
We started dating and everything was super fine. Our first date was simple, nothing too crazy but we had a super great time together. We both told each other that we really enjoyed it. We continued dating for like 2 months. Things were getting a bit « serious », the last time I saw him he said things like « I really have a super good feeling about you and I love what we have », he was complimenting me all the time and was overall super nice. We were texting each other 24/7, he even was like « Why aren’t you talking to me? » on days I was busy or stuff like that. He randomly decided to cut things off after 2 months, when I was on vacation with a group of friends. He didn’t really specify the reason, his text was super vague. I thought that it was either because I was trans (which I told him after our first date) or because we still didn’t have sex? But I didn’t know.
3 weeks ago he reached out again. He was in vacation on another continent so we started chatting again. I asked him why did he cuts things off and he said that he was overthinking the situation (me being trans) and that it was new to him and didn’t know how to handle things even tho we never talked about it. He also said that he missed me and that he was thinking about me everyday and even started catching feelings. He even said he wanted me to be his girlfriend like hello?
But he came back 1 week ago we were supposed to meet to talk about the whole situation and he started to act distant again like he took way too much time than usual to answer. I told him that he was acting weird and he just said no I’m busy (lol?). He still haven’t reached out, so I decided to remove him on instagram.
But I just don’t know what to do, I don’t know if I should try to fix this and communicate with him , If I should just wait for another comeback (which he will do) or If I should just cut things off. I really like him and I love what we have and kinda always thinking about him, but at the same time I don’t know if there’s anyway to fix this ?
Sorry for the long post tho but I’m really lost rn 😭