Half this job is figuring out who’s still serious
No property is ever fully started or fully finished and everything just exists in different stages. At any given point in my day, I’ve usually got a buyer waiting on feedback from a showing that happened two days ago, a seller asking if that same buyer is serious, a tenant asking for an update on a repair that’s already been scheduled but not confirmed, and a lease conversation which is open because someone said they need a bit more time and then ghost.
They’re just there, waiting for the next step to move them forward and the weird part is how quickly things decay when that small action doesn’t happen.
The showing goes fine while everyone leaves with positive signals and there’s usually a message right after telling they liked it and they’re thinking and sek you can you send details. By the time I circle back, I’ve usually got a mix of responses like some people are still engaged, but some are distracted, and some struggle to directly reject it.
You’ll notice these kinda stuff in this job from a maintenance issue that was urgent becomes “pending confirmation” to a seller who was motivated and tells you that they’re “waiting to see other offers.
And I initially thought deals fell apart because they have multiple factors from price, terms, timing, etc etc (they do sometimes) but mostly, deals just lose the motion somewhere. Now, a big part of my day goes in trying to figure out which ones are still alive instead of the ones that are just there prolonging.
Sometimes I’ll open a thread and realize I last responded three or four days ago and the conversation is just…paused in a way nobody intended. then there’s this awkward reset moment with a whole ahh conversation thread.
When I started doing this at scale, I didn’t know how much of the job becomes managing these invisible gaps.