Hello everyone, I'll start off simple me (M27) have been dating my gf(F27) for 8 months now, it's been great. We both love and like eachother alot so all is good there, now here's the catch we are both individuals with disabilities I won't go into details but both our issues effect us enough that things can be a struggle but we both pull through supporting eachother along the way.\
Even before we started dating we both agreed that we weren't looking to get married or have children untill we both felt that we could comfortably do it.\
recently my gfs friend group have been getting more pushy and annoying by the week, they keep trying to tell her how a relationship should be and how things should be done to the point it's overwhelming my gf, recently we had a get together with my friends and hers, all was going well until her friends started crossing the line, bringing up how we should have kids, get married, when we should do it and trying to interject themselves in ever possible situation even my friend group felt uncomfortable.\
But they just had to say "Eh it's not like your disabilitys matter much when getting married and having kids" without knowing the struggles we both go through I kinda snapped, turned around and told them to "fk off, this isn't your relationship, stop being so damn pushy and nosey! Fk sakes" everyone shut up and I left with my gf who was very upset over there words.\
I've calmed down now but I keep getting bombarded by everyone of gfs friends about how rude, mean etc etc I was and how I hurt my gf, I've talked with gf and she assures me I didn't do anything wrong but my nerves and stress is getting the better of me and I just want to get second opinions elsewhere that isn't within my friend group or from her, because they can be bias at times.\
P.s. sorry for the wall of text I don't know Reddit formatting very well! I did try those backslash line break thingys but ain't sure 😅