Husband and friend constantly messaging about other women
I’m 34F, my husband 32M, we have been together for 8 years, married for just over one year. I recently found a photo of naked girl his friend sent him, this prompted me to go through his phone and I realized him and this friend are constantly talking about other women. Whether it be the “hot or fine” women they work with or sending pictures on Instagram. I’ve always trusted my husband but this has made me feel super shitty. I’m pregnant and in my first trimester, so maybe the emotions are exacerbated right now. I really feel like this affects how I see and trust him. Maybe I shouldn’t have gone through their messages but something was telling me to. My husband isn’t talking to other woman but I don’t love the way he is talking about other woman with this friend and how frequently. It feels disrespectful to our marriage. We are humans and of course we will find other people attractive, I think it’s the way they’ve normalized this in their conversations that feels like a betrayal. How do I navigate this?
TLDR: How do I address my husband constantly talking about and sharing photos of other women with his friend