How do I emotionally navigate this and stop feeling hurt every time he criticizes things about me that he once loved?
Been with my husband for 11 years, married for 4. Lately during fights, he criticizes things about me that he once used to love. Things he once found cute or lovable now seem to annoy him, and hearing that from the person I love most is honestly heartbreaking.
What hurts me the most is that I haven’t changed much as a person, but his feelings towards me seem to have changed. It makes me question myself and feel betrayed emotionally.
How do I emotionally navigate this? How do I stop feeling deeply hurt every time he says these things? Has anyone gone through something similar in a long-term relationship or marriage?
TL;DR: Been with my husband for 11 years, married for 4. The same things he once loved about me now seem to annoy him during fights, and it’s making me feel deeply hurt and betrayed. Looking for advice on how to cope with this emotionally.