u/JimmyDangus

Just needed to vent. I have had 3 MC this year - first one passed spontaneously at 8wks before we made to it the OB, second was a chemical, and third no heartbeat seen at 8wks (likely stopped progressing around 6wks) and genetics came back as trisomy 16. Started seeing a REI and so far all testing has been normal. My AMH is 2.85 at almost 38, no coagulation issues, normal A1C/thyroid function, ect. I just tested positive for a 4th time and think it’s another chemical (no betas done yet but lines are almost gone). This is so exhausting. My dr told me that she thinks getting naturally pregnant is still my best bet and that IVF could be an option to ‘preserve fertility’ but at my age and likely attrition rates I would probably have to do multiple rounds to have enough embryos to give it shot. On one hand I feel so thankful to be able to get pregnant fairly easily. On the other, the loses are tremendously hard and it feels sad to have to keep rolling the dice on such an intense losing streak.