u/JimothyJorgin

Hi I’m a 14 (m) extrovert. I had friends but that’s over now. I technically have new friends but I don’t click with them. All my friends that i consider real friends go to a different school and I can’t just up and leave this one even though technically I can. So, most of my day I have no one to talk to, no one to laugh with, no one to gossip about. I have nothing at this God forsaken building. How do I learn how to be okay with being alone?

Hi I’m 14 (M) I live with 7 other people and out of all of them I’m the only one who has never had their own room. I don’t know what it’s like to have one and I want it so bad. Just tonight I came upstairs to go to bed to find that my little brother (who is my roommate) made a mess of my side of the room, threw my stuff off my desk and worst of all tangled my brand new newtons cradle. This has been going on for years. I’m going insane. I feel neglected as everyone else has had their own room and I know it’s possible for me to have one but nope. Every time I try to keep my room clean BAM little brother makes a mess of biblical proportions. I’ve just stopped trying at this point. So tell me, am I right in wanting my own room or am I just being selfish?

In Frank Sinatra’s Nancy (with the Laughing Face)(1944), which he did not compose he only wrote some of the lyrics, he wrote “No angel could replace Nancy with the laughin’ face”. This song was about his then wife Nancy Sinatra. He proceeded to then divorce Nancy and go on to marry 3 other women.

I just started in a new school this year. I know how to make friends and i technically have friends but i haven’t really clicked with them at all. So, *clears throat* WHERE THE FUCK DO I FIND FRIENDS. ITS GENUINELY IMPOSSIBLE FOR ME TO FIND FRIENDS. Please tell me I’m so lonely.

I was 12 when I got hermit crabs & a fish. I loved those guys and took care of them very thoroughly, but eventually it was so much work (I was looking up tips online and following them thoroughly) by the time I was 13 I just lost interest, i couldn’t find motivation. Looking back there was so much I could do like asking for my parents to step in or spending less time with friends but no. Please understand this was a very confusing and difficult time in my life. I went to private school which gave hours of homework every night, I was in toxic relationships, and on top of all of this I, by myself, had to take care of all of these pets. I’m shitty for doing this but I just stopped taking care of them, it’s not that I wanted them dead, but with everything I would barely have any free time. They’re now deceased because of my neglect. I have to carry that weight and it’s killing me. Please just tell me if I am a monster.