u/JoanOfAllTrades24

Please make this make sense

Hey everyone, this is my first time doing this....so please I'd appreciate your answers 😅

So I joined this friend group and we've been hanging out for a long time. Things were good and I got in close with most of the members. So recently we hung out with two other new friends whom I technically introduced into the group. So one of the guys in the group, the one I first made friends with let's call them F, they made a plan to invite all of us to their house for a sleepover slash movie marathon thing....F also had a thing f or one of the two new friends, let's call them X. Anyway they started dating. So Fs plan still stands to invite everyone but then a P, let's call them, suggests that if everyone is coming then P isn't coming. So F supposedly took their advice and didn't invite anyone else except for a close friend of the same gender L, P, and X. That's it. But F had personally invited me before, but then told me it was canceled because no one was going, as there was a brief panic over Xs parents not allowing him to attend. So I let it be. But I later find out through said close friend L, that X actually got permission and X went and so did P and L was ofc invited and L told me. I asked why and L said the reason was that P doesn't like big crowds and suggested he would only come for small crowds. So F took the advice even though they're dating X who has no problem with crowd size. And I end up not getting invited. Even though I was in the group longer than P and X, I was the one who introduced them to F and I knew F better because I knew them before.

I'm sorry if this seems too long 😅 pls take your time reading through it and pls give me an honest answer as to what this could mean because Ps justification now on a cool mind and retrospect seems like a silly ass reason

Thank you

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u/JoanOfAllTrades24 — 7 days ago