AIO: Wife wants MFM with ex boyfriend
Hello Everyone.
I (M44) and wife (F43) have been married for 10+ years. A few years ago we started opening up about each other’s fantasies.
Well, she dropped a bombshell that her and her ex used to have MFM threesomes with one of his college friends.
This took some time for me to digest. Her ex and his wife are part of our friend group. We do the occasional dinner and drinks with them.
I knew she had more sexual experiences than I did, but I had never done anything close to this. I could not stop thinking about it. We started talking about it in the bedroom. This was some of the hottest sex we had ever had.
This went on for a while, but when I would bring it up outside of the bedroom she would blow it off and say that was in her past and could not do it now.
Recently her ex and his wife split up. Then she started initiating the threesome role play in the bedroom. Saying things like she wants this and needs this.
I didn’t think much of it until earlier this, when she tells me she reached out to him and invited him for dinner this weekend.
I asked if should told him what she had in mind. She showed me the whole text string. To my shock she told he everything she had in mind. He was more than on board.
I really feel like we should have discussed this outside of the bedroom before she asked him.
I don’t know if I can go through with it.
I thought this was bedroom talk. Now I’m thinking about all the wild things she actually said.
She said she will cancel if I’m not comfortable. My head is spinning.
Am I making a mistake.