After breakup looking for a group to join
I (M35) am relatively fresh after a heavy breakup (1.5 months) which kinda ruined my life and want to get out of my hole, especially on the weekends. I have a very inactive friends group simply because I neglected everything for the relationship. Generally I would be someone to organize stuff for a group of people myself but I currently simply lack the energy and capacity. I somewhat need to get my ex out of my system as I loved her but she betrayed me for years (which is funny considering the relationship went on for 2.5 years). And it isn't easy. I promise I won't talk about her all the time as I just want to build connections up again. And I don't want a relationship currently, I am too much of a wreck anyways. But I realized the only thing that really helps me push her out of my system is being around normal people and talking. Hanging out, chatting, getting to know new faces and listening to stories without any vibe of dating or anything. (That is why dating apps, while working for me to get to know girls don't work for me if that makes sense)
So really if there are groups of guys or mixed groups of people that would be willing to lend a hand for relatively low effort activities I'd appreciate if I could join. What I currently can't do is anything stressful (for weeks I couldn't even listen to music, that's the level of stressed I was inside myself) but I can offer to drive out of Munich if a group needs a designated driver, I don't drink alcohol at all currently because it fucks me up even more. (Usually i would be up for a beer but please not for me rn) I can also try to join to bars or nightclubs but idk if I am ready yet, so activities during the day might be better. If you like me I can obviously try joining for evening / nighttime activities too but currently I am not sure whether I am ready for it.
As for me I am a normal (usually fun, very easy going and relatively smart) guy, I speak English and (Austrian) German fluently (while also being into language learning but even that got messed up... know a little Spanish, French, Russian) and I am into tech, sports (currently not super active but doing it on my own) traveling and just hanging out. I really am interested in people usually trying to listing and understanding live stories as I am very empathetic. I also enjoy gaming here or there but also that stresses me too much currently for reasons I can tell in person, I got roughed up as if we played ice hockey during the breakup mentally. Ah and I am in Sendling but I can get everywhere throughout the city. Deutschlandticket available ;)
Thanks people and I'd really appreciate it... I didn't deserve any of this :(