Is it ever okay to call another person hot while in a relationship?
My bf \[31 M\] and I \[29 F\] were on a weekend trip with his fam and we were all drinking. We have been together for 9 years.
tl/dr
At a party, I hear my bf talking to his brother, saying some guy’s (whom we know) mom is “kinda hot”. I got upset when I heard that and basically was like um why would you say that? She’s literally standing 5 feet from us. I was emotional about it and started crying at this party. I wanted to show him what it felt like so I pointed out a random guy at the party and said “he’s kinda hot”. My bf got really upset and was raising his voice at me at this party saying it’s different because he called a married mother hot and I called a boy close to our age hot. I didn’t really see it as much of a difference. His siblings all heard us and I felt really embarrassed.