u/JollyBowler2510

So, let’s talk about hypocrisy. We have a lot of men who keep making posts about how no one will choose them, they have no options, etc., etc.

Now I just seen a post on a different thread where a woman was asking about odds on her getting swiped right on the dating app she’s on, as an obese woman, even said she wasn’t technically obese, just more curvy with a little extra weight. And almost every man in that thread told her no, she wouldn’t get picked.

So here’s my question, you all claim that women don’t want you because you’re ugly, out of shape, and whatever other excuse you use. What makes you any different than this woman who can’t get picked? And why should any woman pick a man she isn’t attracted to, when you all won’t do the same either?

I am finally watching GOT.... and I think I am beyond confused on how anyone ships anyone in this show.

Realizing I should've called it Relationships in GOT.

I'm genuinely trying to figure out what men are wanting. Now of course that is two different types of men, men that get women so they know what they want, and the men who are having a hard time. I'm more looking at the men who are having a hard time. Because the last few days, majority of posts have been about men not being able to get anyone in the dating department, and how it's women's fault for not dating average men. And every time I have asked what they're wanting, it's "empathy." So basically saying you want me to agree that women should date people they're not attracted to and give in to men and date the first one that comes along, despite no attraction, or no compatibility that they know of.

So I am genuinely asking. Without being condescending, without feeling sorry for yourselves, what are you as men wanting to happen, since you won't better yourself, aren't happy and choose not to be happy single, what is it that you think will fix it?