Hey everyone. I'm looking to be involved in the community theater scene. I have some experience with acting and tech. Are there any theaters around here that would let non professionals audition or help out backstage?
For context I'm an INTP (M). For a while I was seeing one of my coworkers who was an INTJ. I thought everything was going well. She would offer me food she made, she would give me life advice, we spent time outside of work and she said I was one of the most fascinating people she has ever met. She had some anger issues and a problem with alcohol but it never seemed like anything that was too obtrusive to us being together.
Fast forward a couple of months later, I found out she was dating another guy the entire time from a different department. She gave him the silent treatment the entire time and would rebuff his efforts to see her during the time we were together. I felt sick to my stomach. I told the other guy what happened and broke things off with her. The next day, the two of them were back together.
I guess my question is: Do INTJs usually approach love like a strategy game? Did she ever really like me? It seems like I was used the entire time.