I see a lot of people telling me that such a thing doesn't exist, yet I happen to be one, and I know of at least one other person who is too. Tbh people on Reddit need to touch grass. They don't seem to comprehend the idea that real life human beings have complex personalities it won't just be 'INTJ xwx' or 'INTJ 3wx'.
What r your thoughts?
Do any of you have an addiction to shopping regularly on Amazon?
If so, what are your must haves?
What amazing stuff have you found on Amazon that you are thrilled you discovered?
Just being a curious 🦄…
not from the right people, but from many people do you get the message that what you have to say doesn't matter.? My thoughts and insights being accepted is more important for me than me being accepted because getting older has shown me I'm almost always right. Ni is stronger. Had a realisation that am perfectly content being misunderstood, on the fringe of any group but if my ideas and brain products are acknowledged, it's enough for me and i can't feel accepted the other way round
I decided to buy tickets to the Smashing Pumpkins concert months ago for my cousin and husband.
I paid for everything. I got zero reimbursement from either party.
I got zero acknowledgment from the cousin even though he apparently “loves me to death”.
As the window of opportunity got slimmer I kept asking him “Are you coming?”
Response: 🦗🦗
Closer to the show we had to book a hotel room.
The inn that I had originally planned upon staying at was now no longer available! 😡
I had just gone for a serious medical test and decided ENOUGH ALREADY!!!
He needs to step up!
Still no answer. More 🦗🦗🦗
Husband and I went ahead and booked a sub-par hotel in Hamilton that I will not name because I’m too polite.
He showed up for the concert.
Got drunk. 🥴
Didn’t stay in our hotel.
Made up some BS excuse about driving MANY MILES LATE AT NIGHT WHILE DRUNK!
Oh and we had dinner reservations for the next day.
Two guesses on how that turned out!!!!
So, my friends.
Am I a TOTAL IDIOT!!!!???? 😳😳😳😳
Anyone else struggle with compulsive shopping/buying as a quick response to moments of low self esteem and/or unpleasant psychological states?
If so, has anyone overcome it and how?
TIA!
Why?
Why do you think you are who you are today and what do you think fixes it should it need fixing?
Bots...please tell me more about the push for "individuation" and why it works for making distressed/compulsive spending should I own a major corporation that would profit.
TIA!
I discovered I was an INTJ woman less than a month ago, and suddenly a lot of things about myself made sense.
Since I was a kid, I’ve been very curious about how things work, and not just how they worked, but why than simply collecting information. I naturally question inefficient systems, traditions, beliefs that are biased… I’ve always had a tendency to analyze situations logically while still being aware of my emotions. This has made me very skeptical and picky with who I talk to and consider worth investing my time in. Because of my natural tendencies I don’t keep up with trends or “that’s just how things are done”. I question. I differ. I don’t follow something just to “fit in”.
The INTJ description made me realize that I’m not necessarily “weird” I just process things very differently from my immediate circle and there’s not a single INTJ individual in it.
Furthermore, I recently talked to a male INTJ, and I realized something: I’m not someone who wants her curiosity to stay in research or analyzing things for the sake of it. I find it satisfying. However, I’m learning to channel that into building too.
If you’re a woman in her 20s or 30s who is intellectually curious, cognitively independent, open-minded, ambitious, and intentional about taking care of herself and have felt the same, I’d love to have a talk.
I don’t need her to think like me. I actually want someone who can challenge my ideas and give me perspectives I haven’t considered. Especially on things that are intellectually interesting but also useful…psychology and human behavior, learning, biology, economics, education, history, social systems, and why people tend to behave the way they do.
Why? I’d genuinely love to have someone I can share thoughts with who has a similar mental wiring haha (I’ve never met another INTJ woman) and I am curious about getting to know one. Furthermore, maybe we could expand each other’s awareness once in a while with analysis of personal experiences or conversations about the topics I mentioned above.
Feel free to send me a message! <3