More often than I care to admit, I’ve found gay dudes which I like, I know they are gay, but u can’t seem to find a way to tell them I’m gay and I like them.
Im out of the closet fully, ever since 19, no return. But, unfortunately, I’m masculine. Im pretty sure that this had lead me to lose some opportunities with some guys because when I find them on Grindr and we devour each other.
And have considered being more feminine, every time I try I feel ridiculous ( not because I think being feminine is ridiculous, is because I don’t think it fits me, in conclusion not my thing). And being honest, I admire feminine guys because they have that power to get my type of guy.
Also, I like masculine guys.
How can I make this work? What do you do? I accept input from anyone at this point. When I think about hitting on them, the first thing that comes to mind is “being out of place”, “is not the time for that”, “they might think I shouldn’t have said that”.