I’m a (20F) and I have had some conflicting feelings on a guy who comes into the farm store I work at. He’s been coming there almost every Friday at the same time for like 2 years now and initially my boss(who’s an older southern lady) mentioned that she thought he may like me. I had noticed that he seemed to always be looking at me after he told a joke or said something witty, but I thought maybe he was just looking for a reaction and there wasn’t anything more to it.
It feels like we’ve gotten closer but there’s still that dynamic of clerk and customer that keeps me from doing anything that would disturb the peace, especially because I’m not certain what his feelings are. I’m finally reaching out because he just finished his seminary graduation, which I went to, and he may be moving out of state soon. I have never had anyone had a crush on me and I’m also kind of on the chubbier side so I really have no idea how to approach this type of thing or if I should just leave it alone. I just kind of wanted any advice or insight on the male mind that might help me in this situation.