Please PLEASE stop with this. Use the TALLEST height you are on a given day. That's all you have to do. You're not lying. And let's face it, no one's using their shortest height. This should not be a question, or an issue.
Ok, ive been told me telling people to accept that they are short is "toxic positivity". Its not. Its accepting a fact about yourself. Its not forcing you to accept the bullying that comes with it, it's not saying being joyful 24/7,and its certainly not saying bad days dont happen. Its accepting yourself, Not blaming every bad thing that happens to you because of a trait you have. It's accepting "this is what I have to work with". Its accepting not being an AH to everyone because you auto-assume they will hate/discriminate.
We are short, we can't do anything about it. Why be angry ALL. THE. TIME? Thats exhausting, and it screws your entire life up. Some (not all, not most, some) women don't want to date a short guy. So? Keep asking till you find one that doesn't. Why would you want someone who doesn't want you in the first place? And your angry about that? Why?
Lastly, if i tell someone that they can do "x", the reply is always "the stats say.....". Guess what, the stats cover groups, no individuals. So the stats dont effect YOU. And are you going to let stats run your life? Fk that. Figure out what you want to do, and work the fk out of yourself to get it. I as in a military unit specialty that height was a plusPLUS. I was the shortest guy by at least 6 inches. You think that stopped me? Fk no.
So no, it's not toxic positivity, it's working south what you have, and accepting it. And not getting angry simply because you're shorter than other people and assuming people hate you. If you act like an AH, that's how you're seen. And if you're angry all the time, that's how your going to act.
We are short, Accept it, live it, and live yourself. If you don't, your life will be miserable. And im sure as hell not going to live like that.
This reel perfectly summarizes how you should deal with bullying because of your height.