My girlfriend's family invited us on a week long vacation. I said no because I don't have enough vacation days from work.
She got upset and said I'm not making an effort with her family.
But i need those days for emergencies and holidays. I can't use them all on one trip.
TL;DR: Girlfriend wants me to use all my vacation days on a trip with her family. I said no.
me and my friend used to hang out just us. now she brings her boyfriend everywhere. movies, coffee, even girls night.
last week i asked if we could hang out just the two of us.
she got defensive and said i'm excluding him.
but i miss my friend. not her plus one.
TL;DR: Friend brings boyfriend to every hangout. I asked for one on one time.
i'm having a small wedding. only close family and a few friends. budget is tight.
my sister's friend asked if she could bring her boyfriend of two months. i said no because i don't know him and space is limited.
she got upset and said i'm being unreasonable.
but i have to draw the line somewhere.
AITJ?
TL;DR: Sister's friend wants to bring new boyfriend to my small wedding. I said no.