u/JudgmentSeveral8226

Hi, for some context I’ve been going out with this guy for about 3ish months and properly dating for one. Every time I see him I come home with my trousers drenched regardless of the fact we never do anything sexual but this wasn’t too big of an issue until recently. We’ve started staying over at each other places and we haven’t had sex but even just cuddling or kissing makes me feel like I’ve peed the bed. It goes through all layers of clothing and it’s extremely uncomfortable. He laughs it off or makes sarcastic jokes saying he’s into it so it’s not an issue because of him but I just feel weird. For more context, I’m 18 and it’s my first proper relationship with touching and what not. Will this go away on its own or is there anything I can do? I guess the more I do stuff with him the more used to him I’ll be but at the same time we live 3 hours away and see each other once a week so I don’t wanna wait a year until I’m super comfortable and have to make do. Sometimes, there’s a faint odour of urine after as well which bothers me 😀 what if I think it’s arousal fluid but I’m just peeing myself??

Hi, me and my friend want to go on a double date soon and were looking for a bar with a pool table or some sort of arcade/activity??

We’ve already been recommended pool house in Liverpool Street and it doesn’t look bad but wanted to see if anyone had more suggestions (maybe a bit more tight knit or moody)

We’re not big drinkers so we feel it would be awkward just having a 3 hour conversation with people we’ve just met while they drink and we just stand there

Thanks!

Hi, me and my friend (both 18yr old females) are planning on taking a weekend trip or around 4 days somewhere in Europe (end of August). We’re both pretty well travelled so we know the ins/outs but would still like a safe location. We were looking at Georgia but decided that’s not an option for 2 young girls so we were wondering if you guys had any ideas?

We would be flying from London! We would also like somewhere that’s close by (we were told St Petersburg and whilst I wouldn’t be opposed to that for a long trip, I’m not keen on flying 8 hours with a layover for 2 days…)

We don’t necessarily have a budget but not 5 star, Michelin restaurants, etc

We’re also looking for somewhere that’s maybe a bit more nature/architecture than going out? Neither of us are into clubbing only bars so places like Ibiza aren’t preferable

We were thinking things like Stockholm, Budapest, Venice etc

It would be great to hear the ups and downs for different places.

Thanks!