Am I VELF or LEVF ?
I have a problem with deciding, I feel like I am xe(lv)f XD. I am 100% sure that i am 4f and 80% sure that I am 2E.
Please help me.
L1/L3– I don't necessarily trust my own reasoning. I usually feel like I lack some knowledge to assess the situation and I try to get it. I'm afraid to argue with people I recognise as more intelligent, because I may lose their recognition. I spend hours reading about philosophy/politics so that my views are as close to the truth as possible and as much as possible to justify. I believe that there is some logical and true, the only version of the functioning of the world and that together with science I am approaching to getting to know it and one day I will get to know it. What matters to me are the opinions of experts and people whose views I deeply appreciate. I'm very worried when my argument turns out to be stupid and it irritates me when someone doesn't understand what I mean. I don't need people from my environment to come to the position, but a lot of sources of knowledge yes, even though at first I feel (mainly because of strong empathy and a sense of justice) that any option is the real one. The opinion of the crowds does not count to me, because it considers it stupid, but the opinion of a more intelligent person is something that in my opinion is closer to the truth (and someone who knows the subject). I don't like contradictions, logical errors, imprecise definitions. It's hard for me to admit mistakes. It's hard for me to define my views at the same time because I'm afraid that someone will find gaps in my reasoning due to lack of knowledge.
V1/V3: I hate to give control to others. I'm notoriously lying to my parents about where I am. Not because they wouldn't let me, but because they threaten my control. I love to control my surroundings but I don't like to take responsibility for various events. I often give up my plans, despite my great irritation, because I'm afraid that I'll hurt someone or someone will take off the mask of a confident person, which causes me uncertainty. I hate it when people let themselves be manipulated and I hate it when people can influence me. Sometimes I can't set limits because I don't want to lose someone and I can delay decisions because of my feelings and the possibility of losing control. I envy people who put themselves in a leadership position, and at the same time it irritates me that they do it when no one has appointed them to do it.