u/JulienTheBro

My friend (21 MTF) wants to move from Canada to the US. All of her friends are there and she wants to move to Seattle to be with them.

We both live in a socially liberal part of Canada, but the housing + job market is shit and she lives with her kinda abusive parents. She’s been on HRT for a couple years but hasn’t done any voice training and isn’t stealth

She recently went to meet up with her American friends and is devastated that she has to come back.

Any advice? I just don’t know what to tell her because I really want to be supportive but also caution against it. She has a shitty situation here but I just don’t know.