Hey guys. I've been going to s-anon for a few weeks now, and I really like the women in my group and relate to their experiences.
I'm just struggling with some of the readings and concepts. I don't really understand what some of it is even talking about lol, and I just feel like some of it is extremely vague. I also don't love the idea that we are just like the sex addicts and something is wrong with us? I've had healthy attachment style my whole life, come from a loving family, and have never had a toxic relationship or anything before this.
It's worth it for me to stick with this and have a community, but did anyone else feel this way about the "steps" and readings, and then did it click eventually? I suppose it will make more sense when I have the actual texts.
I'm also confused about what I'm even supposed to say during sharing and it stresses me out