u/JuryLow4965

Hello, 23F here. I’ve been having back pain, nausea, vomiting, hot cold sweats, constipation, and unable to go outside into the heat for about a week now. I went to the ER Monday morning and the 5 hours I was there they found nothing. They gave me zofran and sent me home only for them to call me 2 hours later to say they found a 3mm kidney stone in my kidney. The ER also told me they cannot help until I’m actively passing it and then I can come back and they will give me flomax and ibuprofen. I’ve talked to coworkers who had kidney stones and their 2-5mm stone pain was equal to unmedicated child birth they said. I had an epidural with my child and I’m scared to pass this stone . I stay hydrated and force myself to eat per doc’s instructions. I also smoke 🍁 to help with the back pain. What can I do to prepare myself and how long did it take you to pass kidney stones.

Hello Reddit I never post or take revenge on another I’m very calm and stay to myself but I’ve reach my nice neigbor limit. I’m looking for legal, harmless to people and animals, petty revenge ideas for my next door neighbor . Backstory I live in an apt complex each building is 4 apts, I’ve been in my apt for 3 years and my next door neighbors have been here 1 year, both downstairs neighbors have been here for 5+ years. I’ve lived in apartments my whole life nothing really bothers me or phases me , until this neighbor moved in. All 4 apts are connected and we all share walls and the flooring between us , no space between apartments. Over the span of the year they’ve lived here , all of us that share the building with them have all communicated problems with this one neighbor and they have done nothing but deflect , and not take it into consideration. My problem is their “deed” time. Noise is not a problem but it’s the fact that their “ do the deed time “ causes my entire apt to have an earthquake. This is no exaggeration my entire apt shakes violently from their deed time. Our bedrooms are practically connected as we share the wall between us, ive moved my bed and our shelves off the wall due to things falling off and almost breaking as well , and just to keep my bed away from the wall they bang on so often. I’ve asked numerous times within a whole year to find some way to get the banging and earth quakes to stop but they don’t care, my toddler and I about 6 months ago had Covid and was bed ridden , toddler finally slept and they were banging the wall and shaking our room so bad I asked them to stop or just be more cautious as toddler is sick and sleeping in my bed and they didn’t , when they were done I was told “have a good night” this neigbor is also a parent so it irritated me more with how inconsiderate they are. other issues occur too such as safety hazzards , we live upstairs and they throw piles of sunflower seeds all over the steps I’ve asked them to clean it and I end up cleaning it .I have a toddler and it becomes a slipping hazard to even leave with my child . Downstairs neighbors have complained as well , pouring water and dog pee on their patios through their own patio upstairs. Or throwing cigs in front of downstairs’ doors and walkways ,when I made them an ashtray myself . Today was my final straw , all of us neighbors are pretty aware of each other’s work schedules . I work nights and this morning I was woken up in a panic at 8:20am to my bed and myself violently shaking and loud hard banging behind me as if they’re doing construction to the whole building. I banged on the wall like a “hey I’m sleeping guys” warning, and figured they didn’t hear me as nothing changed so I did it harder and nothing changed or stopped. Then they started to bang harder and I’m tired of having to leave my apt with my toddler due to them, Ive had enough, I started banging on the wall with my fist and hard, and yelled they woke me. as communication with them goes nowhere. gimme LEGAL harmless petty things I can do in return.