u/Just-Client-5313

My girlfriend and I have strapped multiple times in the past and every time, the beginning hurts but then I get used to it and move past it. It’s been like 2 years since we did it and we tried it again and it hurt so bad I cried. It’s like I get 2/3 inches in and it burns and stings so bad. I was definitely aroused enough and we used a lot of lube. She went very slow and didn’t even put it all in, even letting me try and do it myself. It feels like real skin and is bendy so I thought it would be fine. I cried and had to stop and ruined the whole mood. Any tips on how I can make it stop hurting? Or is there maybe something wrong down there? I don’t know help pls