u/Just-Meat-8536

Hello! Was in an extremely happy/healthy relationship for 1 year. He gets into grad school (3-4 years) in AUS and I’m in grad school (2ish years left) in USA. He moves and we decide to breakup because it’s logistically tough. It’s pretty evident we feel strongly about each other and desperately love and miss each other because we’ve been talking a lot and admitted all of this. Right now we’re taking a little space to see how it feels. Hoping to find a little clarity on how I actually feel as things calm down with time apart. Honestly I’m thinking of getting back together with him (if he wants the same thing). I’m nervous for how this would look especially for 2 years (I would have to be the one to move)? It’s long but not that long I guess. We’ve traveled internationally together before and didn’t get sick of each other haha. I think if I initiate the conversation I want to have some visions of how to survive for 2 years before I could relocate to put myself and him at ease. Conveniently have the chance to visit in several months for a pre-existing work trip too if we decide to see each other.

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u/Just-Meat-8536 — 25 days ago