am i overthinking too much
i’m 25F and just exploring the apps, i don’t want to put much pressure on anything, but i know dating for “casual” just isn’t for me.
a pet peeve i’ve recently noticed is the turn around for guys wanting to ‘hang out’. i try to avoid engaging with men who blatantly state they are not looking for anything serious ect, to eliminate that mismatch.
although these people have that they’re looking into exploring more ‘serious’, it’s like less than an hour turn around from saying hi to “let’s do something” and its becoming so exhausting. like the conversation hasn’t left the app yet, i have no idea who you are, if we’re even compatible, or that you’re a real person?
i’m not sure what i wanted out of making this post, maybe advice on handling things? or validation that i’m not the only person who feels like this 😭, or the other way round that it’s just a me problem and i should get over it lol.