u/Just1Sam

I am in the National Guard (28F). I started on orders and PCS’ed to my new duty station in February. My SO (not married) submitted my orders to his Human Capital department in February as requested and we were told that a decision would be made within 30 days by April on when he could move here. He works remotely.

To my knowledge, his requests for follow-up on whatever decision has been made are being ignored.

Has anyone dealt with anything like this? Is there anything I can do as an SM to help?

Edit: I appreciate any advice that can be given. I just want to help my SO out if I can as overall morale and mental health are at play.