Husband says there was "altercation" between his father and me...
A few years ago, my husband's father stormed into the garage where I was minding my own business and getting my kids into a stroller and began yelling at me and falsely accusing me of something. My husband understands and accepts that these are facts that happened and agrees that the accusations are false. (His father has a habit of these things.)
The other day, we started couples therapy. My husband referred to this incident as an "altercation" between his father and me.
I'm so frustrated that he repeatedly reframes situations where his parents choose to do something to me that hurts as "disagreements" or "altercations" or otherwise makes it seem like it's mutual instead of just his parents being the aggressors while I am just trying to survive in my own home.