Wisdom Needed
Hello, I am really going out of my comfort zone posting this on social media. I have a situation and I feel like it’s getting harder for me to keep to myself without talking to anyone.
I work as a government contractor and it’s a great job, with a good schedule, and good work life balance. The downside is it is very stressful, it involves work I don’t enjoy doing and it is wearing on me to where when I come home to my 9 month old baby and wife who I absolutely love spending my time with everyday, is starting to make me get irritated easier with them or just distance myself.
I pride myself on being a father and husband, but I also know I am the lone provider at the moment. I am trying to obtain a state job that will be roughly 10-15k less per year but it will be doing something I enjoy. I am also trying to apply for fire departments and get in shape to get into police academy (Dream Job). If I take a pay cut either for the state job or a private company where I could potentially make more money following my degree would that make me a horrible provider or parent?
When I was a kid I didn’t care how wealthy my parents were or what we had. I just enjoyed spending time with my family and making memories.
Just wanted others input to see if I am overthinking the situation or if I should man up and put my feelings aside for my family?
Please don’t hold back, tell me the truth if it is something I need to hear, thanks everyone for letting me join!