Is it bad for me 20F to tell my bf 25M that we don't need to do *EVERYTHING* together?
I 20/F have been with my boyfriend 26/M for almost 2 years. I tomd him that Igot tickets to this artist who's tickets were selling out fast because I was excited. I told him I got two, one for me and my friend because she gave me money to try to buy one for her. He then acted upset because he assumed the other ticket was for him; I said my friend gave me money for hers and thats all I planned to get.
So he tried to demand that I get one for him too; I said they were too expensive so he'd have to buy it but also it's not possible because they sold out so fast. Now he asks that I sell the tickets because he can't come with me. I tried to tell jim that we don't need to do everything and anything together then he accused me of hating him because "a partner should always want to do everything with their lover"
Edit; I posted this on facebook as well, and I got a lot of comments saying I was wrong for not asking him before if he wants to come with. I'm not excusing it, but the reason I didn't was because of how he's acted during these situations before. First, in the past when I do mention shows to him that I plan to go to with my friends, he shuts it down and doesn't speak to me until I say I will go with just him instead. I pay for every show; and I prioritize tickets for him when it's an artist that I know he likes. But even then, he'll complain and ask to leave early. He's said himself that he doesn't like concerts all that much, but I love them. I did kind of mention the show to him a week before the presale and his response was "oh they're mid". In the past he's given me the silent treatment for going with my sister instead of him to an artist he didn't even like. To summarize, I didn't ask him about it because I was scared to.