What to do with my “caring ettayi”?!!
Married for almost 10yrs.. the perfect family man, perfect dad.. but when it comes to my matters he becomes that “caring ettayi” who becomes over concerned. He was scared for me to learn driving, but I do drive now. So he is kind of ok with it, only when it becomes a necessity. He is still scared for me to travel long distances alone, saying he love to travel with family. He was so upset when I started wearing sleeveless and short dresses, but I have been wearing it more frequently that he kind of stopped talking about it. Even now, when I wear a sleeveless, I kind of have to see his not so happy face. When any male friend appreciates me on my appearance he gets upset. Now the latest issue is me posting my photo in my social media account (private). He is happy when it’s a family pic or when it’s he and me together. When I questioned it, the excuses he said are, ‘I know how men look a lady’s pic’ and ‘I just don’t like it’. All these time, I didn’t have confidence to post my own pics. Recently I lost weight and now got a bit of self confidence. But no luck.. don’t know how to deal with this.. 😌