r/TwoXKeralam

This has been on my mind for quite some time, so I thought I would ask here and see if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I have a boyfriend and we have only made out so far, nothing penetrative. He sometimes asks me to try masturbatingor fingering myself because I had told him that I have never really done it before.

The thing is I have tried using a menstrual cup before and I couldn’t insert it much. Even now, when I try fingering, I can only manage one finger and even that feels a little painful. I have never had penetrative sex before.

I initially thought maybe it was because my hymen is still intact, but honestly I don’t know if that’s actually how it works. I am also a bit scared that something might be wrong with me.

Has anyone here had a similar experience, especially before having penetrative sex and later figured out what was causing it? and how did u manage it? Is this something that can be normal, or should I see a gynaecologist about it? I am scared 🙂

So.... Accidently had a hair catastrophe and had to cut my hair REALLY short (above my shoulder 🥲). Short hair simply does not suit me even if its tied. If I let it open, in less than 15 mins I end up looking like Sai baba. Ive got a major function coming and I feel like the only option I have left is to do temporary straightening. Ive got a pretty good straightner at home and would prefer to use that instead of spending 1k at a beauty parlour.

So if there are any curly-girlies who occasionally do the straightening at home, what tips can you give me to make it look good and last atleast 5-6 hours? Product recommendations accepted as well.

I want to take a health insurance and I have mostly no clue about it. I am 25F. Most of the internet says to go for HDFC Ergo Optima Secure+ Plan. I asked claude to look for any red flags in theeir brochure I got from Policybazaar. It said there is a deductible of 1Lakh and maternity is also not covered.

Now I would like to have maternity cover for the future. The premium for this plan is on the higher side. So I am confused if maternity cover is not included this, will it be there in other plans? Girlies who have gone through pregnancy, how did the health insurance work for you? Did it cover the expenses?

The policy agents are spamming me with calls. Should I seek their help, tell them what I need or do research on my own?

I didn't find the age gap in BKU problematic as I imagined I would - I was ready to feel the cringe. Is it just how the movie framed the whole relationship? There didn't seem to be any undue "bahumanam" or power dynamic between Ashley and Justin. I know movie can't be real life - but it feels okay to have such a large age gap, at least for characters like Ashley and Justin. Ente collegile aanpillere alochikkumbol feels like a good idea for women in general to find someone mature

I’ve tried pretty much every method I could find, but the stain just won’t come out. I’m worried about damaging the fabric since it’s chiffon.
Has anyone dealt with this before and found a method that actually works?!