u/Extra-Geologist-7142

Also when people say, "Not all men". Really dude, when every woman I know has been SA-ed by a friend or family member, how dare you trivialize the circumstances by saying "not all men". Is it worth making an exception for the miniscule population that isnt perverted?

The way they act as if they're not wrong or anything

Got into an argument with one of my friend which left me fuming where he goes on gloating about not all men , or let's hear the other side of story ( the topic was involving about safety of women actually)

So what triggered me is my past experience i had

This is something I've noticed as I went outside kerala.for studies

we as malayalis so cynical

And see as a reason why we are very much seen as superiority complex or arrogant or negative

Like elathinum we counter or criticise , we never Appreciate anything at all and is open to criticise

We use humour and pulling down people as jokes and humour and use it as copying mechanisms

many Keralites grow up seeing family or relatives working in the Gulf, away from home.

We are sadists and “don’t expect too much from anyone” mindset..

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Sugarcut in early 20s or cutting down this sodium high food or inflammatory foodd or angane

Anyone who did sugarcut,is it really worth it or should we exploit the better metabolism and indulge in sugar.

Ee cut oke cheyano how's it as I'm noticing slight variations in blood test ALT is clearly elevated at 66., doctor told fatty liver or thyroid issues problem indavum in future if I don't control eating habits en and alsomodt prediabetic and cholesterol korach high and

So I'm scared as family fatty liver diabetes and toehr health related issues or problems cholestrol sugar thyroid angane issues ollavar ond

What benefits have you noticed from your sugarcut.

Sugarcut in early 20s or cutting down this sodium high food or inflammatory foodd or angane

Intermittent fasting how to do it and

Anyone who did sugarcut,is it really worth it or should we exploit the better metabolism and indulge in sugar.

Ee cut oke cheyano how's it as I'm noticing slight variations in blood test ALT is clearly elevated at 66., doctor told fatty liver or thyroid issues problem indavum in future if I don't control eating habits en and alsomodt prediabetic and cholesterol korach high and

So I'm scared as family fatty liver diabetes and toehr health related issues or problems cholestrol sugar thyroid angane issues ollavar ond

What benefits have you noticed from your sugarcut.

Why are guys or men always obsessed with projecting their opinions or preference on us and always they want to explain things to us or back to us as if we don't know anything or agree to them

Like throughout my life be it whatever situation this is just an example, I've noticed men getting disappointed by the fact that women have opinions and want to argue and always prove we are wrong or like " pandathe penpilleru pole alla innathe " or always agree to their whims or desires and always saying namku penu kitinuila oke

I wonder why

And starting projecting their gaze and opinions on us

Simple example which happened I can share

Recent ayit in workplace something with regards to who u find attractive or is ur type or celeb crush pole ayirnu ,and like why pole everyone used to say , both girl and guys gang ondayirnu , I said I like harry potter guy or like a lean guy with specs is my type angane , and some girls did mention tall people or say like their celeb crush whom they find attractive in movies like Hrithik Roshan, nivin , or madhavan , zayn malik etc angane even in other languages

I don't know these guys weren't even respecting our interest or preference and saying u girls want fair guys only and were going on about how u reject nice guys or doing the typical njngl paavam ningal oke opinion ollavar as if it's bad and engaging in hypocrisy saying so u don't like pradeep ranganathan or vijay or dhanush or Sethupathi or any dark guy or someone who's huge and went on ranting , while these guys choose the fairest girls as their crushes and had no problem

How many of u missed ur school tour and regret it?

I missed my school tour in class 10 to ooty mysore for 3-4 days something

and pinne tour onum Schoolil kiititila and even College il onum vechilla

Eniku it has been biggest regret of my life epolem ik not over it 🥲😭😭

Athum ooty mysore ayirnoo miss cheythe

Karnam i noticed tour kazhinj elarum oru gang tour poyavar mathram friends gang Avunu or only maintaining contact and friendship with them

I really understood how much memories I missed out on and even friendship

An ente teacher and friends also paranju enitum i didn't go , chumma entho reason like madi or something else or like tour onum venda or I was having some mood out karnam poii illa

Velya regret ayirnu hearing elavardem stories and understanding that no one missed their school tour en

I've never visited ee ooty mysore also never got a chance also to 😭😭

How many of u missed ur school tour and regret it?

I missed my school tour in class 10 to ooty mysore for 3-4 days something

and pinne tour onum Schoolil kiititila and even College il onum vechilla

Eniku it has been biggest regret of my life epolem ik not over it 🥲😭😭

Athum ooty mysore ayirnoo miss cheythe

Karnam i noticed tour kazhinj elarum oru gang tour poyavar mathram friends gang Avunu or only maintaining contact and friendship with them

I really understood how much memories I missed out on and even friendship

An ente teacher and friends also paranju enitum i didn't go , chumma entho reason like madi or something else or like tour onum venda or I was having some mood out karnam poii illa

Velya regret ayirnu hearing elavardem stories and understanding that no one missed their school tour en

I've never visited ee ooty mysore also never got a chance also to 😭😭

In what ways do you folks think Kerala is being neglected by the central government?

I have been discussing (read arguing) with few of my friends about how Kerala is not getting it’s due from the centre.

I have a few areas like taxation where we are getting lower than other states and institutions like AIIMS.

But what else do you guys think that Kerala is being denied?

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CAT prep on company's laptop

If I use my company's laptop to prepare for mba mostly watching YouTube/ sign in on gejo varc 1000 or coaching platform on incognito, will I face any consequences?

To those who studied on work laptop in office in break time

Is it safe as I don't know ,as all the travelling, overtime and late night at office, I'm not able to study also after getting back or at morning before office also

And it's making me feel bad and helpless

I want to get in this year that's why desperation

CAT prep on company's laptop

Preparing / Studying on work laptop at office?

If I use my company's laptop to prepare for mba mostly watching YouTube/ sign in on rodha/ egejo varc 1000 or coaching platform on incognito, will I face any consequences?

To those who studied on work laptop in office in break time

Is it safe as I don't know ,as all the travelling, overtime and late night at office, I'm not able to study also after getting back or at morning before office also

And it's making me feel bad and helpless

I want to get in this year that's why desparation

CAT prep on company's laptop

Preparing / Studying on work laptop at office?

If I use my company's laptop to prepare for mba mostly watching YouTube/ sign in on rodha/ egejo varc 1000 or coaching platform on incognito, will I face any consequences?

To those who studied on work laptop in office in break time

Is it safe as I don't know ,as all the travelling, overtime and late night at office, I'm not able to study also after getting back or at morning before office also

And it's making me feel bad and helpless

I want to get in this year that's why desparation

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How do you track your studies and prep

How do u track your studies and prep? Excel or notion or study apps

Can u suggest any apps for studying purpose for laptop?

Not on phone ,I'll get distracted, something I can install on laptop for free version , like a study timer or time app or something free version

Can u give suggestions, simple is enough it's for cat and other exams like , xat snap and nmat tthat's why

Or how u study

What's your workflow for planning and tracking studies?

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How do you track your studies and prep

How do u track your studies and prep? Excel or notion or study apps

Can u suggest any apps for studying purpose for laptop?

Not on phone ,I'll get distracted, something I can install on laptop for free version , like a study timer or time app or something free version

Can u give suggestions, simple is enough it's for cat and other exams like , xat snap and nmat tthat's why

Or how u study

What's your workflow for planning and tracking studies?

How do you track your studies and prep

How do u track your studies and prep? Excel or notion or study apps

Can u suggest any apps for studying purpose for laptop?

Not on phone ,I'll get distracted, something I can install on laptop for free version , like a study timer or time app or something free version

Can u give suggestions, simple is enough it's for cat and other exams like , xat snap and nmat tthat's why

Or how u study

What's your workflow for planning and tracking studies?

How do u track your studies and prep? Excel or notion or study apps

Can u suggest any apps for studying purpose for laptop?

Not on phone ,I'll get distracted, something I can install on laptop for free version , like a study timer or time app or something free version

Can u give suggestions, simple is enough it's for cat and other exams like , xat snap and nmat tthat's why

Or how u study What's your workflow for planning and tracking studies?

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What are the study methods that you follow

How does one study for competitive exams without losing consistency?

I am planning to prepare for a competitive exam for a year from now. This is a very serious exam requiring discipline. I couldn't prepare well last time and I found it really difficult to maintain consistency and follow a time table to study well. I could barely study for 3 days consistently. I have tried seeking advice from those who have scored good percentile or got cutoff or rank in other competitive exams and to be honest Njan onnum padikarillla is their universal dialogue.

Please tell me how to stay consistent, follow the time table and study well

I wanted now about the methods and techniques that has helped you with studies/academic comeback. So what are the study methods and tips that worked for you all?

Ex muslims and even practising muslims and non muslims all please asssemble

Lt's discuss the problematic aspects of islam (I'm an ex muslim here) and why there's always a hesitation to speak About muslims be it positive or negative and also why muslims are constantly sidelined or maybe looked with suspicious approach or anything u feel relevant , ( I've subtlely seen or faced it so .. thought of making this)

But I’m a bit cautious about going too deep in this thread. Ive already seen comments that clearly just hate rather than discussion. I know islam is also not perfect but let's discuss elam be it positive or negative or things u wished to ask or address or say, so it ithelam clear cheytho pokalo

For context: I’m fine. I’m not suffering or escaping anything dramatic. I grew up in a Muslim household and I'm not practising now. ,

With exception of me ,my dad and other siblings and some relatives who are settled here in south kerala

my mother and one of my sibling and some relatives still follow the religion. I’m in a good place with them and I don’t want my experiences to be used to attack people I care about or to generalize about billions of Muslims.

Personally, I don’t think Islam is particularly feminist, and some ways it’s practiced can feel very rigid or cult-like I feel . But that’s a critique of ideas and practices, not a reason to dehumanize the people who follow them.

So athan I asked all of u here be it anyone to help out each other addressing everything and clearing out rather than letting eveything divide us based on just doubts or misinformation

What's yours u saw or heard or observed

Could be a habit, a phrase, dialogues or a food ritual, or something your family does that you later realized is peak Malayali.

Epo kandalum oonu kazhicho or chaya kudicho ennu chodikyanam.