How do I become more visible to women
I [17M] have been invisible to women all my life, I spent most of my secondary school years being bullied for my height and squint caused by my poor eye sight (And I mean full on racial slur type bullying) which has left me with severe social anxiety.
My experience with women hasn’t been great, I’m the guy that gets asked out as a joke and the ‘nice guy’, whenever I have managed to get a girls number it always turns out she was only using me to boost her ego.
I’ve spent time working on myself and have grown a decent sleeper build however that hasn’t changed the fact that whenever I try to get close to a girl I like they push me away, or randomly start ghosting me and I don’t understand what I do wrong.
I left my secondary school to go to college and meet new people and find a girlfriend there, I am a year in and I have made 0 real friends, nobody talks to me and every person do manage to talk to seems to want to avoid leave the conversation the second it starts, which has only made my anxiety worse.
I’m turning to Reddit in hopes of finding advice on what to do because I’ve given up.