When the cards lie
So I post fairly frequently on here and have for a while now. I would say I’m a beginner-intermediate reader, I read for myself all the time, and the cards are fairly accurate, sometimes weirdly accurate. But lately I’ve been in a situation that’s confused me, and it feels like I can’t trust my cards anymore.
I got out of a breakup a while ago. There wasn’t a breakup in the cards at all, Stork was the closest thing to a breakup they indicated, but they predicted movement/communication and emotional connection as the outcome….and then we broke up. Everyone here thought he’d reach out again, I asked a simple yes/no on if he would and got heart+dog. All the cards suggested there would be problems but that something real was forming and would continue….but I broke up with him because in reality, it was too unhealthy and damaging to continue. Everything indicated he’d reach out but he never did. When we were still together, I asked how our relationship would evolve over long term and it showed emotional fulfillment after struggle, a lasting bond, romance. But in reality (after the readings, as it played out) I had to end it because he was an awful partner! If I’d “endured”, I would have been in an unhealthy relationship and taken a lot of harm. Whether I should’ve hoped he’d come back or not, the cards clearly said he would and he didn’t.
Then lenormand told me I’d meet someone. That a change (I read as the breakup) would lead me to someone new. They clearly said that I’d meet a man and that a significant figure would show up soon….and nothing happened in the time frame. Multiple readings showed the same themes, the same cards, the same message that I was moving toward someone, and someone was moving toward me. It wasn’t just me, either — plenty of people on here helping me said the exact same thing. I feel like a damn fool for feeling like I was pulling together a narrative and really understanding the cards…..only for all my relationship stuff in the past couple readings to be a bunch of bullshit. And I didn’t just sit in my room asking the same question over and over again, either. Same subject, different specific questions.
On a completely different note, I asked a yes/no (using the same technique as before, from an in-depth post an experienced reader made here) about if I got a job and it said yes! And then it was a no.
I have the feeling I’ll be told I’m not focusing, I’m too invested, lenormand never has a “fixed outcome”, but seriously; why does this happen? How am I supposed to trust the cards when they can be scarily accurate one month and full of shit the next?