u/Kairito-

Ok, here's the problem. I know that like demi or double demi we need a emotional bond to want someone as our partner but, I wanna know that if it's normal (or weird) that maybe u can say "oh, for me it's cute that my partner is tsundere sometimes", "I want someone that it's very romantic", "I dream with my partner been a lil gothic" or stuff like that. Is like having some ideas of what u want on a partner but obviously that if unsee it in anyone else is like "oh, I'll not date that person, only if my partner was like that" or feel like weird with that. Idk how to describe it, it's difficult even on my native language (that's not English).

Hope that u can answer, I'll be answering personally to all the comments u put. Thanks for taking your time on this.

Hello, I don't post a lot here, I prefer to see but I wanna your opinion on this. I know that anyone has a different perception and thinking of the songs but I wanna hear each one of you. Thanks is u take the time on reading and commenting, I personally gonna respond all the comments I can.

"Hibana" speaks of love— specifically, of someone coming to reclaim a heart as if it had been taken by another, leaving a hollow void in its wake. As the song progresses, the artist challenges the kind of weak, unsatisfying, and incomplete love she has encountered; this is the moment she shouts "NO," pleading for a love filled with genuine intensity —or at least something real— rather than emptiness. To me, the song feels like a protest against the hollow love offered by those who swear they care; it is a plea for them to either end the charade or not even try, as she would ultimately reject them completely. The accompanying imagery shows Ado’s persona in someone’s crosshairs—as if she were being hunted—while tears well up in her eyes. The song features a fast tempo —typical for her— yet maintains a distinctive, steady style designed to convey the song's emotion and stir something deep within the listener. Here, that emotion is a mix of sadness and anger, as if she is fighting with all her might to reclaim her heart after being denied the love she was promised. Her vocal style that signature, impassioned shout draws you fully into the feeling, leaving you breathless, excited, and deeply moved; it might even make you want to cry without knowing exactly why. The title "Hibana" means "spark" in Japanese; this could be interpreted as the spark of desire to be loved completely and honestly even when one struggles with self-worth or low self-esteem, as Ado does. Ultimately, the song is a plea for something real a genuine love rather than the hollow falsehoods anyone might offer. It is akin to harboring specific expectations and waiting for others to meet them only to lash out without restraint if they fall short, declaring their efforts incomplete and unacceptable.

Lines such as "Amidst a love that failed, I will loudly say NO", "It is incomplete— I will say it over and over" or "I do not want to love a weak-minded love" convey the idea of rejecting an incomplete love. Meanwhile, the line "I would like you to play your part in the game of hide-and-seek" suggests an awareness that the love is a sham that the entire scenario is meticulously engineered to deceive, yet the orchestrator makes no real effort to conceal the ruse. It is a demand that they actually hide within that love; if they are going to fabricate something, they should do so thoroughly rather than so brazenly.

P.S: I use an translator for this, sorry if this has some issues. My native language is Spanish and I don't feel confident on using English...

Okay, here's the question.

I know myself a little and consider myself a double demi, but the thing is, because of my age (23, male), I also know that hormones and biology greatly affect sexual desire. It's true that I need a deep connection with a person for various romantic and sexual things (including letting them touch any part of my body), but it has happened to me in very rare and isolated cases that just seeing someone makes me think, even slightly, about letting them touch me or do other things. My question is, has anyone else experienced something like this?

I'd also like to give an example, I can meetup 1,000 people, this case is barely (and with a lot of luck) the only one person attraction out of those thousand, since there are many more people I see or interact with than that, so it's unlikely I'll experience this rare occurrence.

Ok, here it goes (again).

We all know that the demi people need an emotional connection to feel attraction to someone. So, what would happen if the person which has this connection just goes away or takes a break from you? Did you still want them? The desire disappeared? Can it be reconnected? I wanna understand better what could happen cuz I've someone that I really enjoy friendship with but also is an actual ex of mine. I don't know what would happen in this situation or if it could only be friendship again. I would like your recommendations, experiences, and even any warnings you may have, so I can make the best decision.

Thanks for the help to anyone that takes the time to read me and even comment :D

Okay, here's the question.

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I feel like Demi in both sexual and romantic terms, but because of my age (23) I feel that biologically hormones affect sexual desire. In me, it affects me by giving me moments where my level of sexual desire is high BUT I don't desire anyone, it's just like having the desire to have sex. I can't imagine with whom, it's not urgent but it is a desire and it only lasts for a while (if I can resist it) before disappearing. I also exercise, and it's scientifically proven that this influences sexual appetite. My question is whether you have experienced something like this or if it could happen to someone like Demi.

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I also have another question that's more "fun". Do you joke with your friends about making double entendres out of situations or things you say? Am I the only one who does this for fun? I'd love to hear your thoughts on this :D

Okay, I have a question that came to me just last night.

Herein lies the doubt. I am someone who considers herself demi in sexual and romantic terms, but only yesterday did I realize that I had something calling me to a certain type of person with a certain type of dress or way of expressing themselves. It's not an attraction in the sense that I like them, it's an attraction in the sense that I want to talk to them or get to know them better out of curiosity or fascination. I feel like it's difficult to express this because it's not a desire to go out with these people, nor is it a one-night stand or just a greeting; it's something more... I can't fully describe what I mean because it's internally complex and I can't find the precise words to describe it, but what I said feels like the closest I could get. Now, could that attraction to certain people with a specific expression or specific clothing still be considered Demi? My question is mainly because it's not like everyone has to wear the same clothes or makeup. Is more like if I could see if the person is authentic or not but with out talking to them. Idk, it's difficult to express, I hope you can understand me and clear up my doubt.