Am I still demi?
Okay, I have a question that came to me just last night.
Herein lies the doubt. I am someone who considers herself demi in sexual and romantic terms, but only yesterday did I realize that I had something calling me to a certain type of person with a certain type of dress or way of expressing themselves. It's not an attraction in the sense that I like them, it's an attraction in the sense that I want to talk to them or get to know them better out of curiosity or fascination. I feel like it's difficult to express this because it's not a desire to go out with these people, nor is it a one-night stand or just a greeting; it's something more... I can't fully describe what I mean because it's internally complex and I can't find the precise words to describe it, but what I said feels like the closest I could get. Now, could that attraction to certain people with a specific expression or specific clothing still be considered Demi? My question is mainly because it's not like everyone has to wear the same clothes or makeup. Is more like if I could see if the person is authentic or not but with out talking to them. Idk, it's difficult to express, I hope you can understand me and clear up my doubt.