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The approach
There was this girl named Priyanka (27) in my study group and both of us didn't like each other, but one day out of the blue she texted me about my study hours and I told her it's 12hrs for today and we started talking.Now we have been talking for a week or so and then she started complementing my sense of humor and stuff which is completely normal.
But she also started calling me at weird times like at 4 am in the morning, texting like a maniac and if I don't respond for any reason like… I have a life and sometimes I'm busy, but she doesn't care… She wants me to be available for her all the time and the cherry on the cake is that she also bad mouths one of my close friends to me which I don't like at all.So, all of this just gets on my nerves as I have an exam in a few months and she is disturbing my studies. So, I just blocked her.
Establishing a pattern
Now the thing is I wasn't the only person she was talking to, she was also talking to a 19yo boy named Karan and Karan talks to me and he told me how this Priyanka is messing up his life like she doesn't let him sleep, keeps him on Gmeet for 3-4 hrs against his will, she talks shit about her parents (and other family members too) to Karan, she literally cried about her insecurities in front of Karan, she asks him to teach her some math topic(she's from humanities bg) and disturbs Karan's own studies, vents about her own life , and gives him mixed signals like as if she is his girlfriend.
EG: once this Priyanka ghosted Karan for two days… didn't reply to his messages or call and then came after two days but Karan was angry and wasn't responding to her texts so she literally texted this 19yo boy “is this the end of Priyanka and Karan ❤️” and just a reminder Karan is 19yo and Priyanka is 27 years old! Karan literally told me that this girl is emotionally manipulating him and he’s a victim of her emotional abuse and Priyanka is a pedophile (cuz of their age gap).
Btw she tried to trap me in this shit show too, but I wasn't invested in her cuz I am more focused on getting a JOB right now than getting a gf.So, listening to all this I established a pattern that this girl preys on lonely guys who desperately need attention. She initially gives them attention and just ghosts them cuz she gets bored, without thinking how it will affect the other guy.She also has a modus operandi of getting guys emotionally attached to her by treating them like her own boyfriend and then just discards them.
The sting operation:
So, Karan and I decided to expose Priyanka in our study group so that she doesn't emotionally abuse any other guy. So, I wrote down a long message in the group about this thing while keeping everyone's name anonymous, and I knew it was going to hit her on the nerves ‘cause I have proof of whatever she was doing.
(Pata hai aaj kya hua, waise aaj nhi hua tha 2-4 din se chal raha hai ye and ye just Part 1 hai and yes name changed hai saare)
TLDR:
Priyanka (27) from my study group started talking to me out of nowhere, got clingy fast with 4am calls, constant texts, and badmouthing my friends, so I blocked her. Separately, she was doing the same thing with Karan (19) but way worse: keeping him on Gmeet for hours, emotional venting, mixed signals, treating him like a boyfriend. We both noticed a pattern where she latches onto guys, gets them emotionally dependent, then ghosts. So Me and Karan exposed her behavior in the study group anonymously as a warning to others.