I’m in this group chat with a few of my homophobic friends. For context I’m closeted but joke about lgbt often in front of them so it’s the usual. One girl asked me in secret about it and I had an odd feeling so I didn’t tell her I was closeted but just discussed being fine with it. A few weeks later we were talking about politics in the gc before she suddenly changed the topic to lgbtq and gained the approval from the other members that it’s not okay. She then singled me out as shown in the pictures. I said that I respect queer people but that doesn’t mean I endorse it. (I don’t want to come out) So that was the only way to make my stance clear. But she might’ve purposefully misunderstood me just to talk about how I always talk about lgbtq and queer media despite her also talking about it and being active in it. (She’s straight though and made it clear) and honestly? It felt a little stressful so I explained what I meant and she apologized but then implied in what feels like a passive aggressive message that it’s fine that she’s gaining so many sins from me and my jokes since she likes being friends. Am I overreacting for thinking that it felt wildly inappropriate to say that? Just wanted some other opinions.