31f and 30m , do you still have love for a past relationship and cant shake it? Even though you moved on
31f and 30m. Met long ago in highschool, we're best friends before eventually getting together and dating. Dated for 3 years before breaking up.
The break up was okay, I initiated it as I felt held back in the relationship and just not fulfilled. We stayed friends initially but I did distance myself to a degree. Not long after we both started seeing other people, and that led to us not talking. Very ugly fight between us as he treated me super poorly when he started dating this new women.
Now its been 8 years, no contact, no running into eachtoher, no mutual contacts, both living our separate lives.
But damn. The connection i still feel to this man is insane. I dont want him back, I dont fantasize a life where we could of worked. But out of the blue ill remember him, and have this unexplainable rush of feelings of missing him and the love I have for him as a person
Its just this feeling that I still love this man, and I wish I knew how he was (I will never reach out) as I want the best for him.
Does anyone have this feeling? Do you still love the people you use to love? Does it ever truly go away?